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On 1/31/2015 bikerbabe said:
On 1/31/2015 Love Roses said:
On 1/31/2015 bikerbabe said:
On 1/31/2015 Love Roses said:

I gotta ask. What does Bruce or any other male who wants to change, believe is so important to want to be a female? Do they believe they are missing something?


No. They will tell you that they feel trapped inside the wrong body. The brain says you are a certain secks but the physical body does not match. Also it's not the same as being g-- or lesb---.

I understand what you are writing but, if those guys still don't get the fulfillment they thought they would get, that stuff can't be reversed. It may not be what they were hoping for all along.

To me it's just no effort to be a female BUT to stay attractive, svelte, well-groomed, and to acquire and maintain good taste is a chore for many. Will he know what he's getting in to in the end.


Not everyone chooses to go through all phases of secks reassignment surgery. Some do hormones only, no surgery. It's also pretty common to experiment with living as the opposite secks before surgery. BTW, it's not just men transitioning to be women. There are also women that transition to men. Regardless, it should always be done in conjuction with lots of therapy exploration.

I recall watching a program on transgenders, that it's a long, long process, where before hormones, or anything, they see a therapist, for numerous sessions. One of the homework assignments is to start dressing as the opposite six.

As for "staying svelte", etc, just exactly how many (for lack of the right word) natural women do we see in day-to-day life are "svelte", "attractive", or "well groomed"?

So who is the decider that men who become women have to be any more so than natural born women?

It's for the person themselves to decide just exactly how female they want to look and be, and for no one else to decide that.

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On 1/31/2015 NoelSeven said:
On 1/31/2015 YorkieonmyPillow said:

It's not considered by some to be a psychiatric disorder. That doesn't mean it isn't.

There are also some people who believe the earth is flat. It's not.

The medical community says there's no such thing as Lyme disease, either....they're apparently wrong there. Believe it or not, they're not infallible.

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On 1/31/2015 YorkieonmyPillow said:
On 1/31/2015 NoelSeven said:
On 1/31/2015 YorkieonmyPillow said:

It's not considered by some to be a psychiatric disorder. That doesn't mean it isn't.

There are also some people who believe the earth is flat. It's not.

The medical community says there's no such thing as Lyme disease, either....they're apparently wrong there. Believe it or not, they're not infallible.

We're not talking about a virus or bacteria, we're talking about transgender. And you are wrong, it is not considered a psychiatric disorder, no matter how many of you wish it was. The DSM is the official reference for all psychiatric disorders and types of mental illness. It's written by the experts, and they say transgender is NOT a disorder or mental illness.

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Is he a transvestite?
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On 1/30/2015 hyacinth003 said:

This has probably already been posted on here!

Today, People Magazine has confirmed he is transitioning to be a woman.

So, let's say it's true.

What I don't understand is how a man can be 65, a former Olympic champion, married more than once, multiple children, and then claim to want to be a woman.

Did anyone in his life see this coming? It just seems a real puzzle to me.

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I was at the grocery store today and saw People Magazine, Us and InTouch. Only Us and InTouch had Bruce on the cover although I reazlize they made a comment about him on People.com yesterday based on the info from Bruce's family. They have not interviewed him. I didn't look through the other magazines but I doubt he spoke to them either.

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On 1/31/2015 YorkieonmyPillow said:

She has as much right to her opinion as anyone else here. Everyone posts opinions.

Thanks, it is MY opinion.

And I don't really care what anyone says because I don't intend to argue it.

It's perfectly fine with me what anyone else has to say.

Hyacinth

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On 1/31/2015 NoelSeven said:
On 1/31/2015 YorkieonmyPillow said:

It's not considered by some to be a psychiatric disorder. That doesn't mean it isn't.

There are also some people who believe the earth is flat. It's not.

Noel, I've learned some people don't understand it's illogical to have an opinion on a fact. I like this quote:

"You don't need people’s opinion on a fact. You might as well have a poll asking: ‘Which number is bigger, 15 or 5?’ or ‘Do owls exist?’ or ‘Are there hats?'" (John Oliver)


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On 1/31/2015 NoelSeven said:
On 1/31/2015 YorkieonmyPillow said:
On 1/31/2015 NoelSeven said:
On 1/31/2015 YorkieonmyPillow said:

It's not considered by some to be a psychiatric disorder. That doesn't mean it isn't.

There are also some people who believe the earth is flat. It's not.

The medical community says there's no such thing as Lyme disease, either....they're apparently wrong there. Believe it or not, they're not infallible.

We're not talking about a virus or bacteria, we're talking about transgender. And you are wrong, it is not considered a psychiatric disorder, no matter how many of you wish it was. The DSM is the official reference for all psychiatric disorders and types of mental illness. It's written by the experts, and they say transgender is NOT a disorder or mental illness.

Yes, I'm aware of the subject at hand. I know what DSM is. "The experts" ALSO deny Lyme disease; so if they can be wrong about that, they can be wrong about this.

You are wrong.

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On 1/31/2015 hyacinth003 said:
On 1/31/2015 YorkieonmyPillow said:

She has as much right to her opinion as anyone else here. Everyone posts opinions.

Thanks, it is MY opinion.

And I don't really care what anyone says because I don't intend to argue it.

It's perfectly fine with me what anyone else has to say.

Hyacinth

You're not supposed to disagree with anyone on this board, apparently. LOL.

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On 1/31/2015 newziesuzie said:
On 1/31/2015 NoelSeven said:
On 1/31/2015 YorkieonmyPillow said:

It's not considered by some to be a psychiatric disorder. That doesn't mean it isn't.

There are also some people who believe the earth is flat. It's not.

Noel, I've learned some people don't understand it's illogical to have an opinion on a fact. I like this quote:

"You don't need people’s opinion on a fact. You might as well have a poll asking: ‘Which number is bigger, 15 or 5?’ or ‘Do owls exist?’ or ‘Are there hats?'" (John Oliver)

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That put it brilliantly, suzie!

It's completely illogical, and it shocks me every time I see it in action. It's like saying some people don't believe in gravity, it's only a theory.

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