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@butterfly123  Good Grief she has to Think about it?  Predators always know their prey.

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So tacky and I would decline being in the wedding party. 

I paid for all my bridesmaid dresses and shoes.

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One lucky guy, to get that hot mess for a wife. 

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@Mominohio wrote:

One lucky guy, to get that hot mess for a wife. 


Love couldn't be that blind!  

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@Deanie wrote:

@butterfly123  Good Grief she has to Think about it?  Predators always know their prey.


How true!  What a calculating "b"!

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If ever there was a time to say NO (actually this bride's request would warrant a F  NO!), this is it for those bridesmaids.

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She is a disgrace and was not raised right.  Perhaps her parents were too permissive and indulged her too much.  I'd be wondering whether/how I could get out of the wedding, but would tell her flat out N-O in terms of paying for her dress, no sugar-coating it or even explaining.  What is there to explain, after all?  If she then didn't want me in the wedding, all the better.  Unless the groom has similar personality problems, he's in for a very hard time.

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The writer of this piece (the bridesmaid) is such a doormat, I wonder if this is even true.  I can't believe anyone would put up with any of this without speaking up for themselves.


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I would have no problem telling the bride "No".