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A few years ago, I wrote a book titled: The Simple Home. I have always found the concept of simplicity appealing and January seems like the perfect time to review the idea of simplicity. Webster’s dictionary defines simplicity as the state, quality, or an instance of being simple; freedom from complexity, intricacy, or division into parts; freedom from deceit or guile; sincerity; naturalness.  I have found that unless I am purposeful in my choices, my home won’t feel like the simple, satisfying, sanctuary I desire.

I believe the first step in bringing simplicity into your home is to define what it is you hope will take place within its walls. Too many of us try to fit our lives into to pre-molded concepts or floor plans without truly thinking through whether they make sense for the way we want to live.

I have always liked the idea of creating a Mission Statement because it gives me direction and parameters. Think about it – what would your homes mission be? Would it be a place where children feel comfortable or is it creating a place for aging well? Would it be to provide an environment of peace, comfort, safety and joy? Defining and knowing the purpose is vital to creating the home you desire.

I live in Lancaster, Pennsylvania, which has a large Amish population. I have always admired the Amish. Their homes are truly simple. They believe in giving to God, their community, and taking care of each other. As in early times, their church services are actually held in their homes. Each Sunday a different family opens its home for church. That certainly has an effect on the choices they make for designing and furnishing.

Too often, we define our home by someone else’s rules or purpose. We compare our home with those of our friends, parents, community, or the latest trends in style, rather than evaluating how it meets our needs.

Simplicity is always satisfying. Purging the excess and creating breathing room rather than clutter is freeing. It offers us the freedom to focus on and enjoy one event, one day at a time.

My home is my sanctuary, my retreat and a peaceful place for family and friends. My mission statement which I wrote many years ago still applies today:

I want my home to be ordered in such a way that it reflects the beauty and depth of our Lord’s creation. I want it to be functional, provide safety and comfort, and yet remain gracious enough to soothe the senses and inspire dreams.

There was a time when I thought my house had to be perfectly clean and perfecting decorated. Thankfully, I got over that phase a long time ago! The reality is that life has many phases and stages, and we will have a simpler and happier life if we accept graciously the particular phase or stage of life that we in, and design our homes accordingly.

So take the beginning of this new year to think about how your home feels and what you would purposely change to give yourself the freedom of simplicity.

Happy New Year,

Sharon