@feline groovy Your post reminded me of an incident involving my father..........
The block I lived on when I was a teenager, there was this lady who was probably in her mid 40's to early 50's who always wore makeup no matter the time of day. This lady was very beautiful as the makeup was perfection as if a makeup artist made her up.
Her eyeshadows always matched the color(s) of her clothing. Us kid would look at her in amazment when she walked around or just sitting around in the front or back yards.
One morning, my father came in the house all ruffled up holloring for my mother. I overheard my him telling my mother that he went to xxxxxx house to return an item he had borrowed. This "old ugly" lady answered the door & he asked if xxxxxx was home as he wanted to return this item. xxxxxx told my father SHE WAS xxxxxx. My father quickly left.
My mother had to explain to him that women who wore makeup 24/7 look very different w/o it & not in a good way. You just happen to see xxxxxxx prior to her putting on her face.
My father never went to her house again "in the morning." My father was good friends w/her husband.
"Never argue with a fool. Onlookers may not be able to tell the difference."
