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[ECBG]

Ask him if he doesn't want you to feel good about yourself.

I would most certainly have it done by a reputable doctor where they look good.  I have seen some people's teeth where their teeth looked like they had "coats" or an extra layer on them.  I don't know if it was veneers or caps though.  I'm sure you could see examples.

You also have several occasions for gifts during the year.  Veneers could be a part of those gifts.

[homedecor1]

This answer comes because I have married the cheapest man. He hates to spend $$$$ on anything -- and I got sick of waiting for a positive reply to anything!!!   

I learned the hard way saying "NO" to me to satisfy him (negative comments) and shut him up never made me happy.

I was taking a cruise to the Panama Canal for 17 days and it was $10,000+ because we booked a penthouse suite.  My friend and I were so excited.  He was so negative I almost cancelled.  Then, I looked in the mirror and told myself I'm done with this ....best trip I ever took!!!!  We've never taken a vacation together -- he hates hotels, beaches, planes ....the list goes on.  This is me💃💃💃💃cuz he stays home I have great time!!!

Yup he still moans and groans but I do it for ME now.  I'm having major dental done and he's reminding me everyday I'm "old" (63) and I am ridiculous to invest this kinda of -$$$.  

getting it done for ME not HIM....

So, I say do what makes you feel good esp. if you have the financial means🙂!

[aubnwa01]

If I'm recalling correctly, you're in the Seattle area?  If so, have you checked to see how much it would be thru the UW School Of Dentistry? 

I adored my UW trained dentist (he was 1969 grad) of 23 years up in WA & when I moved to Tucson 14 years ago, I specifically looked for a dentist that was also a UW grad.  Luckily, I found one who's only 2 miles away from my house.

[speedy girl]

I bet he was just taken off guard when he heard the price but give him a little time and I bet he will totally agree with you. Sometimes things just need to sink in and then the price doesn't sound so bad! 

[Blingqueen023]

one good thing.  You can take it to the grave with you.  

[Tinkerbell3]

Not sure why you would be asking this here BUT, I would just tell him that this is something that you want to do, feel is important and would make you feel more confident. 

I would acknowledge that it's a significant amount of money but that you plan to do this and hope that you have his support! 

[vsm]

Have you tried asking him to accompany you to a visit with the dentist, who might be able to show him before-and-after shots and help him understand how how much veneers have meant to his patients?  Also, would the dentist be inclined to do the work on a payment schedule?  The dentist might be a good ally for you.

[vsm]

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@camelot wrote:

Find a compromise. Do you have a dental school nearby? They do dental work at much less than a private DDS. They do good work.

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Applying veneers is a cosmetic procedure where a "compromise" could be worse than nothing.  Having a dental school student do a needed replacement of a crown might be one thing -- if there's a problem, it can be fairly easily remedied (although it will cost you).  Not so with veneers.  You want them done once and done right -- after all, you'll be looking at them every day for what could be the rest of your life.

[SeaMaiden]

@Tinkerbell3 @vsm @Blingqueen023 @speedy girl @aubnwa01 

Thank you 

[camelot]

vsm: Applyinig veneers is a cosmetic procedure where a "compromise" could be worse than nothing.  Having a dental school student do a needed replacement of a crown might be one thing -- if there's a problem, it can be fairly easily remedied (although it will cost you).  Not so with veneers.  You want them done once and done right -- after all, you'll be looking at them every day for what could be the rest of your life.

I'm aware veneers are a cosmetic procedure. Compromise means other options. I have had experience with a reputable dental school doing cosmetic work. 

IMO: I would not want veneers. You have to watch what foods you can eat, they can break, & don't last long, increased sensitivity, irreversible procedure, high cost.  Many look fake. Too white, they jump out at you.  There are other options.