All posters here have is what others tell us. We take that information and form an opinion from it. Right or wrong, that's what we have to go on.
You post, you play. You may not always like what conclusions people come to from your posts but that's the way it works. Movie stars go out and get talked about, that's the way it works here.
When you put yourself so far forward you can't complain about what conclusions people jump to.