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Today I had errands to do.  Big deal you say, right?  That's just the back story.  My elderly neighbor whom I've known for years, had lost her son unexpectedly two weeks ago (also a friend of mine).  

 

Yesterday, I left a message on her answering machine telling her where I was going today and asked if she'd like to come along.  But today me and my Eddy overslept.  Although I hadn't heard back from my neighbor, I decided to call her again since I was leaving much later. Her granddaughter was coming over - they had paperwork to do so she couldn't leave. I asked if she needed anything -  stamps and milk was about it - though she did hesitate when I mentioned cookies but said no.Woman Wink  Anyways, got her the stuff, cookies included, then spent some time chit-chatting with her,

 

It was no big deal.  But, everything went perfectly well - no traffic, no lines, close parking spaces, etc. And later in the day someone called I've been waiting to hear from (though missed the call Woman LOL) Though wicked windy, I actually enjoyed doing my errands today.  So much so, I wondered if the Universe was showing its approval of a little kind act:  it was so cold and windy today, I actually would have put off my errands if she hadn't answered the phone and needed something.

 

Which led me to the question:  is the Universe telling us something on days when everything goes wrong?  We all just accept these things as part of life.  But is it lessons or a 'stearingus in a different direction?

 

How do you feel?  Do we often get "nudges"?

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Re: SOMETHING TO MULL ABOUT...

@eddyandme Yes I believe that if we slow down enough to let the universe communicate we do get clues.

 

Observe very young children and see how they painstakingly figure things out.  They use trial and error but sometimes you can tell they learn to "rehearse" something mentally first.  In many ways, those that are shy or less daring often do better longterm than those that forge ahead "flat out" so I think part of it is temperment.

 

As we enter the "fall and winter" years many of us get a chance to be still and consider things, significant and not so, and pick up on life's cues more accurately.  It is the stage I am in now--having a better perspective on the prior bends in the path as well as those that are ahead.  My choices have not always been wise ones, but I keep trying.

 

So good that life smiled back to you today as you smiled at your neighbor in need.

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Re: SOMETHING TO MULL ABOUT...

If I've learned anything in my 69 years of living, it's to listen to my gut and no one is responsible for your happiness, but you. God did not give us free will for nothing.

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Re: SOMETHING TO MULL ABOUT...

I think our intuition is constantly communicating....just depends on how open we are to receiving the messages.  Today you were clear and intentional,,,,not stressed.  You had a lovely day.  You were available for the lesson and the beautiful message.

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Re: SOMETHING TO MULL ABOUT...

@eddyandme if the universe is trying to say something to me I wish is would just blurt it out. 

Apparently i've done something wrong because it's been quite a week and I"m really glad it's over. Ugh.

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As a lifelong Catholic, in recent years I've been given guidance by what I believe is the Holy Spirit.

 

Whatever one's beliefs, I do think we are often guided by something outside of ourselves. And to me, that's a good thing. I have found it very helpful in making some decisions.

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   I definitely believe that sometimes we are shown a better way if only we pay attention. Then if things go wrong I wish I had listened to my first instincts.

   I'd had a busy day yesterday and was going to give the dogs their treats before my shower. 
   As I passed the mantle I picked up rings that I remove  from the ring holder. I thought this one is loose,I'd better watch out". Had three rings in my right hand & that ring finger. Then went to kitchen for two bones for dogs. They went to their beds and I dropped a bone in each. Went down the hall to my bedroom put the rings on the chest and there were only two rings. I vacuumed floors and no ring. 

    After panicking and searching all over I was afraid my old dog had swallowed the ring. My son took me to the emergency vet who did an X-ray and said she didn't see a ring.

    We went home and my son left. I went to get a shower and thought I'd better get the other dog checked because she will look for crumbs in his bed. 
    I drove her to the vet and another X-ray where she didn't see a ring but food could be covering it. Said to watch her. 
    So I'm watching both dogs who seem fine. I'm still searching for the ring that's a silver & opal not valuable but I don't want dogs to find it. The vets bill is $500 so far. 
    I didn't listen to intuition or my guardian angel so she hid it. I need to pay attention, slow down and listen! 


   

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@Jtdmum wrote:

@eddyandme if the universe is trying to say something to me I wish is would just blurt it out. 

Apparently i've done something wrong because it's been quite a week and I"m really glad it's over. Ugh.


@Jtdmum, I kmow. oftentimes I need a kick in the but! Hope next week will be better!

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WOW, how right you are, @aroc3435 !  As we age, and thru trial and error, we learn to listen to the inner soul and the Angels guiding us!

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What are you talking about? I do not grasp the idea of your post?

I keep on dancin'