@ECBG , good luck in your move. My elderly uncle, who was in his 90s, fell outside in his garden and couldn't get up. There were no neighbors at home, he had left his cell phone inside because he was going to do manual labor outside. He was there for half a day, the next day he chose to start looking for a new care home. He loved it, they were quite good with various activities, and he was able to join in. Kudos to you for being able to choose what you need to do; sending prayers and good thoughts.