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UPDATE -

 

Now he is writing comments about my daughter on my facebook page.  

 

I had to block him.  Ugh its getting ugly

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@qvc chick wrote:
UPDATE -
Now he is writing comments about my daughter on my facebook page.  
I had to block him. Ugh its getting ugly

 

 

It's probably going to get a whole lot uglier.  You blocked him and that's good.  He's angry and frustrated and he feels powerless.  He has a right to those feelings.   This is why couples go to couples counseling, it's often not about SAVING a marriage.  It's about working together to end a marriage with as little pain and disruption as possible.  The celebs are calling it conscious uncoupling.  You know the situation.  What made you think it would not get ugly?  











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Re: Divorcing a son in law

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You know-I removed most of my posts once I saw that he had custody twice a week with the child.

 

If he is allowed to take the child twice a week, I start to question this family issue and just how bad is he if allowed that privilege??

 

Is he driving drunk?  Is he caring for his child properly?

 

Seems suggestions have been made and none are taken.

 

jmoymmv

 

 

"" Compassion is a verb."-Thich Nhat Hanh
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@qvc chick wrote:

UPDATE -

 

Now he is writing comments about my daughter on my facebook page.  

 

I had to block him.  Ugh its getting ugly


@qvc chick, I'm not so sure this was a good idea. If his behavior gets worse and there is a question of the safety of the child, these comments he is making could be important. It is best to know what he is thinking than not.

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@tiny 2 wrote:

@qvc chick wrote:

UPDATE -

 

Now he is writing comments about my daughter on my facebook page.  

 

I had to block him.  Ugh its getting ugly


@qvc chick, I'm not so sure this was a good idea. If his behavior gets worse and there is a question of the safety of the child, these comments he is making could be important. It is best to know what he is thinking than not.


 

@tiny 2 

I agree.  @qvc chick qvc chick needs to DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT.  Everything.

 

 

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@Cakers3 wrote:

You know-I removed most of my posts once I saw that he had custody twice a week with the child.

 

If he is allowed to take the child twice a week, I start to question this family issue and just how bad is he if allowed that privilege??

 

Is he driving drunk?  Is he caring for his child properly?

 

Seems suggestions have been made and none are taken.

 

jmoymmv

 

 


@Cakers3  I was trying not to Post but once I saw that he had the child twice a week and also saw your Post, that changed my mind.

 

All I can say is that it seems as if the child's mother feels comfortable giving custody to him twice a week. Maybe he's not all that bad.

 

I would be going to Court and no way would he be seeing our daughter without supervision.

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@Sage04 wrote:

@Cakers3 wrote:

You know-I removed most of my posts once I saw that he had custody twice a week with the child.

 

If he is allowed to take the child twice a week, I start to question this family issue and just how bad is he if allowed that privilege??

 

Is he driving drunk?  Is he caring for his child properly?

 

Seems suggestions have been made and none are taken.

 

jmoymmv

 

 


@Cakers3  I was trying not to Post but once I saw that he had the child twice a week and also saw your Post, that changed my mind.

 

All I can say is that it seems as if the child's mother feels comfortable giving custody to him twice a week. Maybe he's not all that bad.

 

I would be going to Court and no way would he be seeing our daughter without supervision.


@Sage04   Sometimes I just kick myself for getting pulled in.

 

Just sayin'. 

"" Compassion is a verb."-Thich Nhat Hanh