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[NAES1]

@PamfromCT ~ 😇,🌸, and 🎶for you.

   I have not heard from you lately and please know that I was wondering if you were not feeling well, or had been traveling.

 Knowing you as I do, quite well, this is not like you unless something has been changed.

 Never would I entertain the though of being a nuisance but I admit I would like to know if you are okay. 

 I can wait until you are available, if for only a {•} on a post anywhere you would let me know. Heck, I'll even go over to ::::::::

                  SPORTS.

   Missing you more and more than you realize. 💒

 NAES

[NAES1]

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@NAES1wrote:

@PamfromCT~ 😇,🌸, and 🎶for you.

   I have not heard from you lately and please know that I was wondering if you were not feeling well, or had been traveling.

 Knowing you as I do, quite well, this is not like you unless something has been changed.

 Never would I entertain the though of being a nuisance but I admit I would like to know if you are okay. 

 I can wait until you are available, if for only a {•} on a post anywhere you would let me know. Heck, I'll even go over to ::::::::

                  SPORTS.

   Missing you more and more than you realize. 💒

 NAES

         @PamfromCT     AND a 

I haven't been -EXACTLY > here- on any one forum for many days, just a reply or in brief....(?) whatever, then by browsing..FOUND THIS.. all alone and no response, so I knew then you didn't see it, or was ill...even worse..GONE.  

I mentioned on the other thread, I will be back later, but later became "" if "" I even see your name, which I did on the comment of Today's value/ petites minutes ago.

Hugs for you, dear friend. I had read the reason(s) you were absent for some time. 

I am stopped for the mere reason, on & off, due to the change of FONT. I couldn't read anyone's post, but the screen page came through larger than ever.

Many had the same problem and SAID they would use either a #4, #5...so that works for me..at #4. Please let me know how this FONT is coming across for you~ 

  "...apparently still are". (?)

I hope so much that you may be able to read this.

       I have missed your sweet messaging WAAAAY too long.

 Lovingly, NAES

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[PamfromCT]

Hello my dear friend @NAES1!

Yes, your message is very readable!  I prefer reading larger fonts myself.  In fact, I like to bold my messages to make them even more readable.

I hope you are ok, as well as your DH and DS.  Please let me know what is new and how you are doing.  I am ok, but busy going for PT for my right hand.  Some muscular issues sustained when my car was hit.  This PT is very good, recommended by my hand surgeon.  NO, Inwas not a good candidate for surgery.  And back to the pool a few times a week for back therapy exercises.  And, of course, our bathroom remodels (all three) are scheduled to begin on Wednesday.  I am so grateful for my medical help, and I think having updated baths will help us if and when we depart this house!  Meanwhile, just doing the best I can.

[NAES1]

    Dear Pam, 

     I have not been on as frequently as I had been, but always check every two days to peek around if I should see your name. I went back in my files [they] give us and this was the last one, 2 weeks ago..and that's just okay with me. 

I had reread your last sensitive wording -

       Meanwhile, just doing the best I can'

      ``and Pam isn't that the most honest statement  anyone can in reality actually say?

(I have no idea how my font is this small on #4, so I 

.......**Go to #5 in the event you can't read this, as well - as when you posted...I gave up weeks ago trying to walk through this maze over & over!

Now that you have seen my -"I FOUND YOU"...we can continue on'

How is your hand doing with the physical therapy.

It's has been one rough event after another ( for you) from our other postings, so I thought since you were doing better, somewhat, after the family member's [emotional] and his need for your support, I would wait and have a small posting to ourselves for this this time..

I know many friends would love to add comments of love and where they have missed you, also. 

I'll wait until you read this and we can begin from here.

I had posted late last night a memory of the date my husband asked me to marry him, ( March 25th) which I hope to respond in kindness for such lovely replies. 

Of all things, my husband knotted a muscle in his upper back or shoulder from ( I believe) from trying to carry something quite heavy- too fast, so I am backed into a self >>do it ER, here. Just that quickly.

I have warned him never do anything this fast or turn in odd positions.

That was last Tuesday, and now having the ramifications from 4-5 days ago. 

I declined on any PT for the 2017 March 16th slip and hit the counter then turn and bruise that one femur trigger point.

I am to see the physical medicine doctor in April.

Oh happy day!  

   Sasahy, of ....all....things, came in Friday limping around 7:30 pm from her {{usual}} evening out when's it nice.

We were at the 24/7 Vet Clinic until almost 12 midnight. The Veterinarian wanted to do a Xray, and i said no, she has no fracture foot or leg, ::``let's do some antibiotics and a mild syringe for pain and rest to get through this next 24 hour period. She rested all night and pretty much of all Saturday, then I watch her hobble to her water and food. About  5 hours after that  she is 90% better.

Whatever it was I caught it in time because the (L) leg was becoming swollen and I knew it wouldn't take long for the inflammation to become worse and for the infection to travel into the blood line, then we would have a problem. 

There is a new cat in the neighborhood, so I have no idea if he snipped her leg or not.

She could have stepped onto a thorn or sharp object since she kept licking her bottom _foot_ and her ankle area.

I have not seen her want to go out since this happened. This is a long acting 12 day antibiotic, and she appears to be in no pain whatsoever.

I have syringe solutions for that, too.

  I'll close for this time since I am doing a heavy massage for those back muscles with everything topical analgesic I have.

Next I do the deep heat moist applications to help with the tightness.

My sweetie has never been to a Chiropractor but this may be 'his' 1st if no improvement.

I am doing much better...

       but no YAY YAYs here, 'cause I may fall down the stairs after that one statement.  I hope to stay okay and a smile on my face.

Thought, I would call his doctor and have him >>>in very early<< before work at the office.

Believe me, the groans are lurking often, but better than yesterday. AHhaaaaaaaa. 

Missed you something  terribly.    PAM!!

lovingly, NAES

LO V E   L O V E   L O V E  to you

   and all of the family.

Just tell me everything, as much as you feel comfortable with, then I'll pick up from there. I know most (or can guess)the rest.

[NAES1]

@PamfromCT

ABOVE read ^^

 I spelled Sashay wrong, firstly, then didn't quite explain who she was.

We adopted her 1 year-5 months ago at age 8  when our neighbor adopted an ANOTHER dog, and was empowered to take in 5 homeless cats, so `` SASHAY`` just came over after KittieCream died October 19th, 2016, age 10.

She had squamous cell carcinoma.

I knew something was wrong the day my husband brought her home, the VETs were simply stupid and never had a clue, until they had her hospitalized and got their almost @2,000.00.

She was there more often than here.

Sashay 'had' ventured over about 3-4 days after KittieCream died and never left. 

     I don't believe you knew that story?

   "....I said no more pets [or] surprises of deaths, diseases or heartaches...so was I in for a big surprise....will explain in full what happened to the man next door, from many months ago. THAT'S HOW THIS ALL BEGAN.............!

I think that's where we left off, then you were busy with the [emotional] family member, et cetra"..... Gee! Do I always forGET those @@@@ signs when posting back.

I'll blame that, also, on the stupidity of it all, from that backing into the kitchen counter, then twisted, turned and slipped. What a fluke of a surprise.

                           Me! Of all people ??!!!

NAES

March 25th, 2018.

[PamfromCT]

Hello Dear NAES!

I am so happy to hear you have a new kitty.  I know how broken-hearted you were when KC passed into kitty heaven.  These darling furbabies just steal our hearts, don't they?

I am going for my hand therapy (remnant of my accident) twice a week while house is a bit torn apart while we start having three bathrooms remodeled.  Our kitchen and laundry room came out quite nice.  We will still need to paint and redo one more bedroom, repainted in hall, living room, and tackling our family room, which needs a purge and removal of extra wall bookcases plus books, etc.  Will be so happy when all is done.

Please be kind to yourself about your fall.  It just takes a second for accidents to happen.  BOy, it has happened to me. PLease let me know how you are doing.  So easy to get hurt in a second, but then a journey to heal.

I wish you and your DH and DS a most joyous Easter, with peace and happiness.

All my best,

Pam

[NAES1]

@PamfromCT

    I was so excited to hear from you, even though I missed your exact timing.

   ***  Pam, I just logged on to ask about Tissyanne's mom, then waiting for my husband to come home and saw your name.

You appear to be doing much -MUCH- better than 8 months ago, even longer. That beings a huge smile to my face.

 "I believe you check in just about as often as I do, certainly not as frequently as a year ago".

  We had just gone through a lot of floor covering in the kitchen, one bathroom, some new piping, along with a (wow) kitchen facet, and of course the new oven range I had been searching for what seems over 15+ months. I finally made my mind up to CONVECTION and __still learning__ everything is so different from the typical ...what I had for EVER, [induction]. 

YOU, PAM, sound as though I should label you Super woman from what you have told me. I really ..reaLLY do not like anything in home decorating, but what we've been doing was more necessary than DECOR. 

Are you not right on about a simple fall clouding up one's life style. AND! You would certainly know. ! !

 Sashay is our baby girl, now. She's 8.5 years old. The man next door had a pet loss- his former/ older dog, so he adopted another and then adopted 5 new cats and a mama from a neighborhood (unknown to me) that did not want any responsibility, so my neighbor was empowered to take all of them.

That apparently was too much for Sashay, then she came here and >>never left. That happened almost exactly 4 days after KittieCream died.

 How is {E}? And do you go to the facility as volunteering?

  I don't expect you to be super back, so in case that you JUST may, I'll pick up from here. Sending much love and blessings for a very Holy Easter, hoping though I might hear from you before. As I mentioned, I was so happily surprised to find you.

I understand your time, the work involved and will wait for when it's very convenient for you. 

 L O V E, ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, just me 

      You are a joy to my soul. never forget THAT!

How is Lily, your two little precious ones. I do UNDERSTAND what you have gone through.