@Mom2Dogs wrote:
@RedTop wrote:
I absolutely cannot understand the control measures some people write into their will, and the ugly situations they create for their "loved" ones!
@RedTop I wonder if the lawyer that wrote up the will discussed how wrong/unfair the terms of the inheritance are?
@Mom2Dogs I will answer that question based on how the wills in my family and a few friends were written. Understand that we are a HUGE family (6-12 siblings per each family so it adds up quickly). As I stated, having a sibling with a severe disability is expected. Also, alcoholism and drug addiction is a risk we all have due to our family tree (many of my family members are). So with that said: siblings are written out of the will all the time in order to cause conflict between them; siblings are promised XYZ in they do ABC and then find out via the will that they will receive nothing; I have had cousins sacrifice their career, their change to marry, their relationship with their spouse and children in order to inherit $$$$ and property. I've seen IT ALL. YES, absolutely YES the lawyers are aware of what will happen BUT....they are being paid to do a service and if they don't do it, some other attorney will. Sometimes the lawyer is in on it because THEY will receive a hefty portion of the estate. Like I said, I've seen it all; I've even been through it myself regarding my own Mother. From beyond the grave, they still control and cause pain....all planned.
*Four Seasons once again*