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@blankette wrote:

Oh sweet heart, I am sending you a cyber hug. I know this exact pain personally and it is very very difficult to deal with. My son, and we are historically very close does this to me as well. He is in relationship now with a woman that he seems to be crazy about, yet there has been a subtle and ever noticeable kicking to the curb and meaness to me. I just do not understand it. It may be he has trouble having a strong close relationship with two women, it may be the influence of the woman in his life, I simply do not know. I do know it hurts. We are always last in line and we have done everything and more for him. My remedy is to take it for awhile, then I disturb his comfort level by returning the tone, and guess who is immediately upset. I just pray about it, thats all I can do. I put it before God above, and I know it is His will for parents to be honored. So take comfort in knowing you have the Lord himself on your side.And me too!


I have a friend going through the exact same thing, she could have written this post. What is wrong with these men?

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@CareBears 

Good for you. How dare your daughter or anyone else disrespect you. 

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What I never understood is how a spouse can interfer with the spouse's relationship with any family member.  He should know better so shame on him.  He could at least call.  I thought it was very unkind to mention he is having lunch and you are in the hospital having surgery.  Don't let it get you down.  Go on with your life and spend time with your daughter, when possible.  Cat Happy

kindness is strength