Q Talk

[christikate]

I enjoy reading the boards in the mornings while I'm having my coffee. I rarely post because some of the posters are just so rude. It's uncalled for and it reflects their own bitterness.

[lgfan]

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@smoochy wrote:

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@wagirl wrote:

Well-------what OP said would certainly be the ideal way to deal with stuff. But in this day and age, that is the exception to the rules anymore. I think now that people have the power of being able to remain anonymous, to write/say anything about anything and not take the consequences of those actions--this is the normal way of life.  The old saying--if you can't say anything nice, shut the he** up-- doesn't go far. So many think they have the right to be mean and nasty---I blame one main person for all that---

Haha only one? Is it the one I'm thinking of? There are a couple of ppl here that love being rude and nasty

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I think that she was talking about a public figure.

[wagirl]

@Othereeeen --I agree 

[Venezia]

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@blacklablover wrote:

I'm an occassional contributor, but I've noticed that if a contribution is seen as negative somebody will accuse the writer of griping and suggest they don't watch the programs.  Sometimes constructive criticism leads to positive change.  Apparently, if a submission is not "a ray of sunshine" the author is often chastised and lectured by another contributor.  I don't think forums were designed to be only for cheerleaders, new age positive thinkers, and moral monitors.  Let's disagree but not be disagreeable!

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Well, I certainly agree that we should have respectful discourse.

However, I respectfully think calling posters who disagree with a topic the above highlighted names is a not-too-subtle slam of those posters.

Maybe they just have a different, legitimate point of view?

[smoochy]

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@wagirl wrote:

@smoochy --amen, friend!! Was TRYING to be ----nice

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oh gosh...I hope it's not ME 

[THEY CallMe Mr Wilkes]

I don't think that there's anything wrong with being a QVC "Cheerleader."

Why not?

I find some of it a welcome antidote to the relentless moaning, groaning and outrage.  And it doesn't mean that the moaners need to stop. 

Both, to me, are fine and acceptable.   Something for everyone. 

[Othereeeen]

@Venezia 

And we NEED posters with all viewpoints..

Imagine how boring this place would be if it was ALL the same point of view....

There are PLENTY of other forums out there for strictly one sided views....they get boring and repetitive very quickly.

I just skip over them if they're TOO sugary!!! 

But I'd never say they shouldn't express those views.

Long Time posters know who to skip over....

I'm a long time poster and I tend to read the posts of even those I don't always agree wiht...because many times, they DO bring up points I agree with, just not in a way I might express myself on the same topic.

There are a LOT of diverse backgrounds on these boards. Of course, it IS getting distilled down to the same hundred or so posters....

I think this candle is almost burned out....

[smoochy]

I got so frustrated with a person here who constantly argued with me in an unpleasant way....that I called her an old bag. Yes the thread was deleted immediately. I'm surprised I wasn't banned. I left the boards for a couple of months and no one noticed. Haha that's how important we are to each other. 
but seriously, what I learned was to take nothing personally on a community forum. 

[lgfan]

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@smoochy wrote:

I got so frustrated with a person here who constantly argued with me in an unpleasant way....that I called her an old bag. Yes the thread was deleted immediately. I'm surprised I wasn't banned. I left the boards for a couple of months and no one noticed. Haha that's how important we are to each other. 
but seriously, what I learned was to take nothing personally on a community forum. 

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It is difficult to take the high road when someone is insulting you but I have learned through the years not to take the bait and I move on to another thread.

[kaydee50]

I have no real problem with "criticizing" public figures like the hosts and vendors.  I see it more as people expressing their opinions about their likes and dislikes.

What I do take offense at is when posters "bash" other posters.  That is totally unnecessary and uncalled for.  I usually report them as "inappropriate."