Mom to Mom

[timeless]

So today my mom asked me to drive her to her appointments.

I knew this was coming and am soooo glad she asked me.

She said she doesn't feel her eyesight is good enough now. 

And, she doesn't think she is okay on her own going to appointments.  

For those that don't know...mom is 83 and mobile.  She walks fine (holding on to a cart, arm...etc.)

I'm so glad she recognized it's time to give up her key.

She said she accidently bumped the car ahead of her in a drive-thru line last week.  There wasn't any damage, but it was a wake-up call for her.

My dad gave up his key to drive and let mom do it for years, because he became disoriented.  Thank you dad!  

So, for those of us who have aging parents/friends that need transportation help...YOU are very important.  Not just to them, but to the other children, parents, brothers, sisters, on the road.

Please have a talk with your elders and let them know you are here to keep them be safely on the road!

(My Father-in-Law was a former California Highway Patrol officer and approves of this message!  lol)

[beach-mom]

@timeless - Your parents sound wonderful! 

I know from experience it is hard for some who should recognize their limitations to do so. One older friend I treasured was killed in a one-car accident. She should not have been driving. None of us knows what she was doing on the road she was on. 

YOU are also wonderful! A lot of children would consider this something they had to do, or a burden, instead of recognizing the love and care you shared with your parents. I've heard the complaints.

 I wish you and your parents could come talk to our congregation. You three have a lot you can teach others about how to handle situations like this with love.  

[timeless]

@beach-mom 

" I wish you and your parents could come talk to our congregation. You three have a lot you can teach others about how to handle situations like this with love.  "

How sweet of you!

Dad has passed on, and was an introvert, so probably wouldn't accept anyway. lol

Mom would love to add to an ongoing conversation in front of a congregation.  (Not to be the only one sharing her experience.)  Perhaps this is something you could bring up to your reverend/pastor/priest?  I think that's a terrific idea!