Well, I just packaged up some items for return. I received my XS tunics today and they fit much better than the XXS which was unusually small and tight in the chest and under the arms. So they are going back. Black is beautifully basic and alabaster is such a flattering neutral. I will be stalking an XS in the pink.
I tried and re-tried on the dresses again. I decided to keep the black in XS. After reading some of the responses, I want to clarify that I think the dress is simply beautiful. I wasn't expecting fancy details. It just didn't fit me quite right. My issue was that my normal XXS was too tight up top. When I sized up it seemed like the extra fabric in the larger size overwhelmed me and this seemed meh. It was less obvious in the black. Heck, if alabaster ever becomes available in my size I might get that too. I like the swing style, don't really have to worry about wearing spanx, lol.