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Registered: ‎03-09-2010

Hey! I wanted to thank you, Paperdolly, for asking about my job status (without jacking AW's thread).

Nordstrom's timeline isn't *my* timeline and I'm surprised that I haven't heard more. Two of my references told me that they had been contacted. All indications are 'its a go' and I expected to be called to start on Monday to prepare to take part in the the Half Yearly Sale, scheduled for Wednesday. I have no felonies and can pass a urine test {#emotions_dlg.laugh}..Maybe they just don't know what to do with me..

Anyway, I do appreciate your kind thoughts. I know that my issues are not as dire as those faced by AW, or as painful as those faced by floss..

Its a humiliating thing, being unemployed. I've left a field where I was well thought of and at the top of my game, but too expensive for most employer's to consider. Health care benefits quadruple for those over 50 so employers would rather hire those under 35. Ageism is alive and well, but try to prove it. That's why the majority of my application submissions have been to the federal government. My situation is painful for the spirit but not life threatening. Since I have no health care insurance I've put a few things off (like estrogen patches and a root canal), but nothing debilitating since both of us are relatively healthy. DH is self employed and we've always relied on my job to provide coverage. Obtaining a Kaiser personal advantage plan would be costly so we've opted to gamble on our wellness. For now. And home repair has been put on hold. 'Seems like everything we need to replace is $1500-$2000 each, and we're reluctant to rob our retirement to attend to these things.

But we are fortunate; lucky and happy. We live in a place we love and are enriched by the experience given us by the sights, sounds and fresh air of the coast. Vacations aren't necessary because in our area day trips reveal wonderful (and inexpensive) diversions. Also, I *can* still purchase a bauble here and there if I'm careful and it doesn't cost too much. This experience is a primer for retirement and the lifestyle changes we'll be making.

Once employed I'll be working for another 15 years and intend to pay off the mortgage. That was suggested by a patient who was very emphatic about it, stating that "something always comes up that costs as much as the payments!" How true!

But, I'm rambling so I'll stop here.

Again, thank you for caring enough to ask, (((Paperdolly))). Kiss