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10-20-2020 02:33 PM
I don't follow home trends. The only things I update are the furnace, air conditioning, and some appliances, if needed. My husband and I recently replaced our bathroom sink because it was old and the faucet was leaking.
I think a large part of the updates are to get people to spend more money and aren't always necessary. If a person is fine with their decor, who cares if it's not "trendy"?
10-20-2020 05:25 PM
I love my home more today than when we built it 39 years ago.
I have never followed any trends, period, and have no concerns about whether my home looks dated. Our concerns have been to stay on top of maintenance projects, and never let things get that sad, run down look; inside or outside.
We've got a BIG exterior project lined up that should start in early November. My husband wasn't happy with the projected cost of this project, but we cannot do this job ourselves, and I'm wanting this done right!
My home is not a show place, but the location makes the house stand out, and we intend to keep it looking nice.
10-20-2020 05:54 PM
@RedTop I loved your post. Your comment about not being a show place brought back a memory of my Mom. She always said that a home should be a home, not a show place.
I completely agree with keeping up the maintenance and making sure your home always shows that you have pride in what you own. Whether your kitchen table or bedroom suite is years old that doesn't matter. Those who judge either the age of your home or the quality of your furniture aren't worth having in your life.
Good luck on your new project. I hope all goes well for you.
10-20-2020 08:56 PM
Thank you very much for your kind words!
As I've written here before, I live on part of what originally was my grandparents 200+ acre farm. My grandparents bought this place about 1940, and the farm was really the home my dad remembered.
My husband and I built this house as the place to raise our girls. There isn't a corner of this property they haven't explored, and have a memory or story about.
I want people to walk inside our front door, and feel that a family lives here and is happy here. I focus on keeping my house clean, comfortable, and maintained, so that it will be here for many years to come.
10-20-2020 09:03 PM
My father had those geese on his wall at every home or apt he had![]()
10-21-2020 11:55 AM - edited 10-21-2020 11:56 AM
@RedTop wrote:Our concerns have been to stay on top of maintenance projects, and never let things get that sad, run down look; inside or outside.
We've got a BIG exterior project lined up that should start in early November. My husband wasn't happy with the projected cost of this project, but we cannot do this job ourselves, and I'm wanting this done right!
Hope all goes well with your project. Your home & property sound lovely!
We are just about finished with exterior maintenance on our house. We had a new garage door installed - the original wood door was rotting. We had our gutters repaired and the exterior painted. We still need to buy and install new outside light fixtures.
We spent quite a bit of money, but all the projects needed to be done.
10-21-2020 01:38 PM - edited 10-21-2020 01:44 PM
@CANDLEQUEEN wrote:I think simple changes can change your room dramatically, so as far as updating goes, my husband and I will change out small things in a room to update or just to change, rugs, curtains, pictures, mirror,etc...
I don't follow trends, some I like and some I don't, our home is more traditional with warm tones....To me outdated means more like flooring, window treatments, maybe appliances,etc....
I think on HGTV they use that word way too much! It is usually couples on House Hunter, or Love it or List it. It is an overused term in my opinion!
It would be crazy and super expensive to update your home everytime a trend came along, so you make small changes when you see fit to do so! I am a firm believer in as long as you like it and are comfortable with it-that's all that matters!
My parents had beautiful window treatments up in their living and dining rooms for years. Then they decided tey needed something different. They replaced them with long panels in colorful but neutral shades that changed the whole look of the rooms. It was the only change but everything was brighter. I think this is how most people decorate. They find pieces they love and then make changes over time. Maybe a new coffee table or window treatment. Maybe they change or update the paint on the walls. Or perhaps they change the flooring.
One of my friends would change her bathroom paint color everyone two years. It has been everything from pale yellow to bright orange. It's her thing. Then she changes the towels and accesories to go along with the new color. It's not matchy matchy just complimentary.
10-21-2020 02:46 PM
@Twins Mom wrote:I am definitely not one to follow trends just because. I need new flooring after 30 years and conflicted. Carpet or hardwood? Which rooms? That's why I feel I need decorator advice but don't know how to select - internet, newspaper ads? I don't know anyone who has used decorator. I might go to furniture store and use their decorator and work down to floor.
Just my 2 cents. Hardwoods add more value to the home, more durable, imo easier to clean. Use carpet if you like that feel. Sometimes people just carpet bedrooms. Carpets with padding are easier on the feet, even with shoes on. My home has hardwood and I like it. I like tile too, even though it is not as popular.
10-21-2020 07:27 PM
I like the way you think @RedTop . The land matters to me, and although I don't live on our farm, it is still in the family. I'm not one time spend money on unnecessary updates, but we did replace siding, windows and the garage door two years ago and it made a huge difference in the curb appeal of our home.
10-21-2020 07:58 PM
I know when I say a room or decor is 'dated' I'm saying that it looks like the quintessential 19__ look. Like the Brady Bunch house is quintessential 1970's. Many houses still have all the original bath and kitchens from the 1950's or have been recreated to look so. So 'dated' to me, means it looks like a decade that is past, is not only not current looking, but isn't even classic or timeless.
I find much in home decor to be timeless or classic. In other words, you have a bit of trouble telling exactly what decade the picture was taken in. Some styles, colors, textures scream a timeframe (macrame, avocado green and gold say 70's, while turquoise and pink say 1950's), others seem to transcend decades.
It's a hot thing these days, and many younger people are looking for and creating 'dated' homes. Some eras, I kind of like to see, others I don't care for, because they are not 'out' long enough to be 'back' in style (like 1980's oak kitchens?).
I know when people look at my home, they will see 'dated' in many areas. Some of it I'm still loving, like my 1990's bedroom, with lots of hunter green, rose, mauve etc. I love the room as much today as I did when I put it together in 1994. Other places in my home, I've already changed to look more current. I did it by removing wall paper, painting, changing some of the wall art, but still keeping some much loved accents that I think I will always love (my Rowe Pottery).
I will do the following to change or update the look of my home.
Remove wallpaper, borders and paint.
Change the floor covering (even the 'new' in our house is now 25 years old, so needing to be changed anyway)
Replace upholstered furniture. Again, we tend to keep it for at least 20 years, usually longer.
Replace some home decor pieces and wall art, but actually find a way to use a lot of my pieces in the 'newer' look.
Change the window treatments, but I never buy expensive.
In rooms I've gutted, I tore out the baseboards and replaced with a much more upgraded look.
The more expensive things I've done to make the house look updated so far include a complete kitchen gut and remodel, all new interior doors, all new exterior doors including garage door, all new windows. All these things needed done, and I chose styles that I feel are much more classic than the original 1973 style look those components had before.
Bathrooms really could used remodeled.
But over all, I don't update my wood furniture, I still have every piece I've ever bought and still love them. I also don't change things often. Most rooms, furniture and walls are the same for a minimum of 20 years before upgrading or changing.
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