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[mousiegirl]

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@Allegheny wrote:

No fear here as I don't even know what my UPS person looks like anymore.  He retired and we have someone new.  Also no worry about DH.  We trust each other.  If there are large purchases to be made we discuss them first.  We both have access on line to our checking account and credit cards and can check them at any time.

Because of a difficult driveway, our purchases used to be delivered to my neighbor's house, who just happens to be my brother.  I got more grief from him about how often UPS was delivering.  You know how brothers can be.....Well that stopped when his girlfriend moved in with him.  Due to her shopping he is now on a first name basis with the UPS person.

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LOL!

[qualitygal]

My husband knows what I order, we discuss some order we want, or I ask him to order on his computer. He gets stuff too.

[Chrystaltree2]

No, that would never happen to be because I'm an adult with a job and my own credit cards.  However, even back in my sahm days when we only had the one income, his.  My husband didn't treat me like a 12 year old; the money that came into our home was "our" money and I never had a reason to hide purchases from him.  And vice versa, of course.