Fashion

[Kimnola]

I have rarely asked questions.( I broke my legs and in a wheelchair for 8 more weeks) My questions are for information and ones experience. It is ashame that it inevitably brings judgement and condemation. I was simply looking for a social outlet and Fun group . The ole adage it only takes one, in this situation is the same snarky, bullying and dreadful trio. Thankyou to all I really enjoy sharing with. Bye bye

[luvdoodles]

First of all sorry to hear about your injury. These forums are great for the most part. Don't let those others get to you. They are out there. There are more nice people here than bad snarky ones. You get to recognize their names and  just avoid them. Don't read their posts or respond to them. Wishing you a speedy recovery and reconsider posting again. 

[2blonde]

@Kimnola  I'm so sorry to hear of your accident.  That must be awful having to be confined to a wheelchair for so long.  I'm sure there will be a rehabilitation period after that, but hopefully you'll be back to your old self soon after!

Yes, there are some pretty negative posters here, but if you think about it, that's just the way it is everywhere, right?  Unhappy people enjoy making other people unhappy with them.  Try to ignore them, there are plenty of nice people on here too.

[KingstonsMom]

@Kimnola

I'm not aware of what may have transpired, but I agree wholeheartedly with @luvdoodles post above.

Don't give up on the forums yet.

[suzyQ3]

Without knowing exactly what you are referring to, @Kimnola, I don't see how anyone can comment on your post one way or the other.

I've seen many threads like this in which it turns out that the poster WAS unfairly treated and just as many threads like this in which the whole story reveals that that WAS NOT the case.

[meallen616]

@Kimnola,

Don't give up! There are alot of nice people here!

[Citrine1]

@suzyQ3 I could be wrong, but I believe the OP is referring to a thread entitled "QVC return shipping" right here in the fashion forum.  I forget her exact words, but she claims something to the effect that a poster was critical and judgemental of her.  In my opinion, said poster was neither.  I guess it's just a matter of how you look at it.  I'm not seeing it myself.  

[GAQShopr53]

@Kimnola  I have been on the QVC blogs and forums for a couple of years but would never comment or ask questions because of some of the comments when people asked a question.  You just have to use this tool and I have found out it works really well....Just IGNORE those that choose to reply with insensitive and smart remarks...I just chalk it up to they are miserable and bullying others is their only outlet to feeling good about themselves...Don''t leave the group just find the right forums and keep asking questions...

[suzyQ3]

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@Citrine1 wrote:

@suzyQ3 I could be wrong, but I believe the OP is referring to a thread entitled "QVC return shipping" right here in the fashion forum.  I forget her exact words, but she claims something to the effect that a poster was critical and judgemental of her.  In my opinion, said poster was neither.  I guess it's just a matter of how you look at it.  I'm not seeing it myself.  

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@Citrine1, that's exactly what I mean. I checked it out, and I agree that said poster was not at all critical or judgmental. Sometimes we have to check our defensiveness at the door and save our ire for those who are truly rude in some way.

[Kachina624]

I think perhaps @Kimnola. is overly sensitive, which is understandable considering her condition.  I read the questionable post and saw nothing wrong with it.