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Re: New temptations pattern?

On 4/10/2014 happy housewife said:
On 4/10/2014 stilltamn8r said:

I have to agree that a Country picket fence look is probably not going to go well in a black granite and stainless kitchen- Is Sophisticated better than Country?

is Country better than Sophisticated?

no, they are both just a matter of personal taste- can't we express opinions about THINGS without taking it so personally?

Why can't people express an opinion without having to do thoer best to put the person with the other opinion down. saying you are not sophistacated or that what you are bying is cheap dollar store merchandise etc etc is putting down the other person to make you feel you are somehow superior.

No, it isn't..YOU read that into the post- saying you have sophisticated taste is NOT in any way saying you are SUPERIOR- Any more than ssaying you prefer primary colors to pstels says that-

Only YOU can make yourself feel inferior, due to the words of a stranger-

You felt put down, for whatever reason, so what did you do? You went ont he offensive and attacked-

Typically it is judgemental people who go through life feeling "judged" by others-