Why Is This

Puzzle Piece · ‎06-29-2010

There's a young senior man who is bullying and slandering an attractive middle aged female. Why? Because he wants her and can't have her. She's married and content with her situation. He's married (second go-around) and quite a philanderer with many affairs to his name. He likes to openly admit his conquests. Why do males have to resort to slandering, maligning, and lashing out at someone they can't ever have. This guy is past his prime and knows there isn't anything he can do without a blue pill. Why should females suffer their twiisted delusions and nonsense. He says things to her and one or two others when no one is around so he would claim it's all here-say if he was called in to the bosses office. She has never given him reason to think she's available or interested. To me, it's something I've witnessed throughout the years since puberty many years ago.

Okay all you psych majors and behavioral scientists, lets have your takes.

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Still Raining · ‎03-30-2014

Care to share how you know he requires a blue pill?

sunshine45 · ‎03-09-2010

this is at work?

how come no one has gone to human resources or to the owner to file a complaint?

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"The world is a dangerous place, not because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing." - Albert Einstein

proudlyfromNJ · ‎05-01-2010

Is someone bothering you at work? Just ignore him. Tell him you are busy and cannot talk.

Jacie · ‎01-09-2011

I've always said that the workplace environment is adult daycare combined with soap operas!

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RetRN · ‎10-01-2013

Ignore him. Keep your distance as much as possible. Don't initiate any conversation. I feel sorry for whomever this person is. The guy is clearly troubled as he should respect her refusals and leave her alone.

Preds · ‎12-17-2012

Dementia will cause this to happen, depending on his age. Being a dominate male cad will also cause this. A little blue pill may fix one thing (pun intended), but mental issues may be a more plausible reason for why he continues to do this.

Fate whispers to her, "You cannot withstand the storm." She whispers back, "I am the storm."

151949 · ‎03-09-2010

When a man is bothering you and won't take the subtle hint then YOU need to be more clear. Tell him to _____ off. Fill in the blank with whatever word makes you comfortable. Some men require a very clear and precise refusal, though" I am a happily married woman and I'm not interested" should be enough - sometimes it takes more.

ladyroxanne · ‎03-09-2010

he may be a senior, but he immature, immature, immature.

blackhole99 · ‎08-22-2013

If her employer would not believe her complaint of unwanted advances, she should leave that job. If the man continues to bother her outside of the work place she should go to the police and file a complaint and get some kind of protection order against him.