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When you're angry how do you express that anger?

Do you raise your voice?

Do you swear?

Do you cry?

Do you yell?

Do you fester?

Do you seek revenge?

Trying to make sense of why some who get mad resort to violence as a way to express their pain, hurt, anger.

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Re: When you're angry how do you express that anger?

I get very quiet.

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Re: When you're angry how do you express that anger?

I yell and cuss.

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Re: When you're angry how do you express that anger?

Depending on the situation and "how" angry I am, I would say I raise my voice. If the other person is screaming at me, then I usually stop talking and let them ramble on. Sometimes, I just choose to walk away. It takes 2 to argue.

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Re: When you're angry how do you express that anger?

When you're angry how do you express that anger?

Depends on the source of my anger and where it happens. Of the choices you've listed I will go with "raise my voice" especially if a business is trying to "take me for a ride".

I ain't into destruction or revenge, only letting the person(entity)know that I am not too happy. Never use any foul language unless my anger is directed towards myself, then all bets are off.

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Re: When you're angry how do you express that anger?

I do all the above, but I've never hurt anyone. I work it out in my mind, fist to a pillow, screaming at the top of my voice ..... let the pressure off. Revenge ..... maybe, but not likely.

Fate whispers to her, "You cannot withstand the storm." She whispers back, "I am the storm."

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Re: When you're angry how do you express that anger?

I eat chocolate. I'm not much of a screamer.
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Re: When you're angry how do you express that anger?

I've been known to do all, except revenge. Revenge just doesn't get the results I'm looking for. The best revenge truly is a good life. However, I'm all about 'do no harm' and I've been working on my temper for decades. Doing much better.

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Re: When you're angry how do you express that anger?

My reaction depends on who or what caused the anger.

There are times when you must speak, not because you are going to change the opposing side, but because if you do not speak, they have changed you.
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Re: When you're angry how do you express that anger?

i have a punching bag that gets a rather good beating quite often. when i'm really stressed i go to the shooting range. :=)

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