Community Chat

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My husband just spent the entire morning fixing and then washing and putting pinstripes on my golf cart. He just finished, got himself a brew and turned on our favorite satellite radio channel - then he went out on the lanai to read the paper. I am sitting here watching him and could not help but think how very fortunate I am to have him. We have been friends since birth - boyfriend/girlfriend all through school, and after a bit of a rocky road eventually we married. Even when we were not a couple - even when we were each with someone else - he was like the one constant, strong, stable thing in my life. Weather we were just friends or we were spouses he has always been there to protect me and be sure I never was totally alone. I don't deserve him. Yes, I do get mad at him sometimes - and some of the time he does deserve it. But all in all - I am a very fortunate lady. It upsets me when women come here saying how their husbands are abusive emotionally- and probably other ways as well. I could not live with someone I did not like and respect.