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[Toyia]

What do you think of a husband,who puts his income in his name and won't discuss his spending.

he reluctantly pays the utility bills, because my job has slowed to a crawl in the last 4 yrs.

He will not discuss my feelings, says I had a savings before marriage, 15 yrs ago, I can use that if I need money and I should pay some of the utility bills.

My loss of business, and my other business expenses saved us $14,000 in taxes this year, that money will be used for the house property taxes and home repairs.

Still..... the whereabouts and the use of HIS money is a secret.

Oh....minor detail, while I have no cash and suppose to pay more expenses, he does own a plane.

If I mention that expense, he says it is his passion and HIS money.

Any nice ways of approaching the topic with him.

I'm stuck.....