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Re: Update on my adopted son…

@Malcontent, thank you so much for giving an update on the family matter. So generous of you as I will say some of the replies on the original post were a bit harsh. I wish you,  your son, and your entire family all the best! BTW, I'll take the mashed potatoes, please. Woman Wink

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Blessings to your son, hopefully this gave him the peace of mind he needed.

He sounds like a fine young man who was raised well. 

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I'm not sure why he is referred to as the "adopted son". Once an adopted child is part of a family, he/she is your family as much as any other child.

 

I have an adopted son, too, but have never, ever referred to him that way since I sent out the announcement when he was a week old. 

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@Shanus wrote:

I'm not sure why he is referred to as the "adopted son". Once an adopted child is part of a family, he/she is your family as much as any other child.

 

I have an adopted son, too, but have never, ever referred to him that way since I sent out the announcement when he was a week old. 


She explained that she never refers to him that way but here on the forum, she said it that way to give us a point of reference.  I'm glad she did because I wouldn't have understood the situation.  A perfect outcome, OP.  I'm happy for your family.

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I didn't read your original post but it appears your son was curious about his birth mother, he satisfied that curiosity.  It's done, there is nothing there for him.  You are his mom.  I'm happy for your family.  

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That was a wonderful story!  Thanks so much for sharing.

 

You have brought up a wonderful young man.  Smiley Happy

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I missed your original post, but I am happy things worked out. It must've been stressful.

If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. ~ Desmond Tutu
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@pupwhipped 

 

Thank You for being so kind.

 

He took the mashed potatoes too. lol

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@RetRN 

 

Blessings to You also. 

We’re Blessed to have him in our lives.

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@santorini 

Thank You.