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[I am still oxox]

Hmm I still wonder what is the big secret about the disease? In this day and age and surly with poster the norm the we hear about every part of her life, so why not name the mystery illness

[stilltamn8r]

On 8/21/2014 Usedtobeoxox said:

Hmm I still wonder what is the big secret about the disease? In this day and age and surly with poster the norm the we hear about every part of her life, so why not name the mystery illness

well, arthritis is a painful, incurable disease... Lots of diseases are treatable (to one extent or another) and yet incurable- Heck, I have one!

[brii]

Well, glad all that's cleared up...

[Maya Maye]

On 8/20/2014 TruthTelr said:

Hard to imagine millions of people go to bed at a reasonable time, get up early and stay up, awake all day. And are productive...physically and/or mentally and/or intellectually. And then go to bed at a reasonable time and start all over again. Its called personal pride, sense of accomplishment.

Are they disabled? I highly doubt it.

There are people in this world who have physical as well as mental and emotional limitations. So happy you are not one of them...or are you?

[Chalcedony]

I believe that the OP would benefit from a more positive outlet for her energy that posting on this BB. After awhile of doing very little, it can be hard to get motivated to get out of bed, out of the house, etc. Exercise, volunteer work, a hobby, part-time job, anything - so maybe taking care of the boy will be a start. Being needed is a very strong motivator for most of us.

[Krimpette]

On 8/21/2014 Chalcedony said: I believe that the OP would benefit from a more positive outlet for her energy that posting on this BB. After awhile of doing very little, it can be hard to get motivated to get out of bed, out of the house, etc. Exercise, volunteer work, a hobby, part-time job, anything - so maybe taking care of the boy will be a start. Being needed is a very strong motivator for most of us.

I believe the OP craves the attention she receives on these forums. Negative attention or positive, doesn't seem to matter. Just attention.

[irishmama5]

Too many other women willing to help him? For a small town your boyfriend is very fortunate that the grammer school is within walking distance and that many other women would be willing to be at his house at 5am to care for his son. Ofcourse he did not have to ask he KNEW you would offer just like you offered in June. You are like Grandmother for his son

[VioletEyes]

Even if most of this persona is a figment of the OP's imagination, it still think it is very, very sad. She has been posting for years and I suspect there are elements of her threads that she draws from that are based on truth. If there is in fact a "boyfriend" he clearly is using her. Sad on all counts and painful to read.

[QueenDanceALot]

Does RRR see the women lining up or is he telling her that they are?

[stilltamn8r]

On 8/21/2014 KittyLouWhoToo said:

Does RRR see the women lining up or is he telling her that they are?

I think it is the voice of mer mother..who by her own account, pushed her toward men, that echoes in her head.."If you don't get him, someone else will"- it is very sad to think your only worth is what man you can attract...