Some prayers, please - Page 7

gardenman · ‎03-09-2010

@ThinkingOutLoud wrote:
Have you read the posts on these boards from @gardenman when he was having to move out of his house and how he managed to find a solution? There might be some tips mentioned that would work for you.

In NJ, the only real option I found was Section 202 housing. Those places all have waiting lists, so you have to get in line pretty early. There are programs to help recovering drug addicts, ex-cons, immigrants, HIV patients, and others, but nothing for "normal" people in a tough spot. It took thirteen months to get in here, but things are good now. Find Section 202 housing near you and apply to get in line. It's by far the best option. Most Section 202 units will have a social worker on staff who might be able to help you also until you can get in.

Fly!!! Eagles!!! Fly!!!

DottieBlue · ‎03-11-2010

I think you need to find a better lawyer who will contact your landlord directly. Tenants do have certain rights and a lawyer can make sure your landlord is complying with the laws. Also, a lawyer could possibly negotiate a new repayment plan for the debt you incurred.

Wishing you a better new year in 2026.

haddon9 · ‎03-09-2010

@feline groovy My DH got SS disability at the age of 59. I had read about all of the difficulties many get as well as being denied. However we knew someone who worked in SS and it was she who suggested we give it a try.

At the time in 2012 we had to go to the SS office in person bringing all of DH's medical records. He then had to go to an appointment with one of their doctors. The weird thing was they seemed to be focused on his hands but he didn't have any hand issues. Instead he has a rare autoimmune illness that gives him severe balance issues and double vision among some other issues. He resembled a stroke victim.

Anyway he was approved and after a few months he received a letter stating that he would start getting SS disability in a couple of months.

Because he was close to retirement age he received SS disability which would have equaled what he would have gotten at his regular full retirement age for SS. In other words he didn't get the amount he would have gotten if he just decided to collect regular SS at 62 which as you know is much less than full retirement age.

So once he started collecting SS disability at 59 1/2 as soon as he got to full retirment age it just seemlessly went into regular SS.

I hope it can work out for you as well! Even though SS is a federal program DH worked in NJ but we live in PA so he applied for it in PA.

After writing all of this I see that you already are reciveing SS disability. I wonder if you can do something to get a full retirement amount. It's worth looking into!

I wish you the best and hope that things work out well in your favor....prayers sent your way.

elated · ‎06-09-2010

@feline groovy I forgot to mention that there is a site called findhelp.org. It has many options to choose. All you need to do is put your zip code and the options will show for your area. I hope this helps..

Did you have a signed agreement with your landlord about monthly payments? As long as you kept up your payment schedule, I don't know how he can evict you. If you did, I would suggest you file in small claims court plus punitive damages..

I found this under PA eviction laws. Your lawyer should have done this to protect your rights.

Tenants have rights under Pennsylvania law, including the right to receive proper notice before eviction and the right to contest an eviction in court. If a landlord attempts to evict a tenant without following the legal process, such as changing locks or shutting off utilities, the tenant should seek assistance from the Office of Consumer Protection.

Tenants who feel uncertain about their rights should seek professional guidance. In Pennsylvania, organizations like the Pennsylvania Legal Aid Network (PLAN) and Regional Housing Legal Services provide free or low-cost legal help to those facing eviction.

Setting up partial payment plans, applying for rental assistance, or seeking mediation through the local Magisterial District Court can sometimes stop an eviction before it escalates.

In states prohibiting self-help evictions, rental owners can't force you out of your home until after the court rules in favor of the landlord, even if the hearing is rescheduled.

There may be circumstances beyond your control, such as a death in the family, that make it necessary to temporarily prevent an eviction. If you require a stay for any reason, explain your situation to the court and ask for more time. This action is called “requesting a stay."

pigletsmom2 · ‎05-20-2025

Ok take a deep breath Groovy. I went through eviction when my apartment building got foreclosed on so I have some ideas.

Have you gone to court or they just filed? Have you been given a court date? Make sure you go. Judges aren't keen to just throw people out. So...

See if your area has a tenants right org or something like that. We have one in my part of NY and they even had a representative in there helping people when we went to court. The other tenant in the building and I made them evict and we negotiated more time. with no rent being paid. That wouldn't work for you but again most judges just don't want people tossed for little reason.

Also not sure if you want to get into what was done but it was their contractor? And they're holding you accountable? Seriously wondering if this is an angle to look at. Oh and do you have a lease or are you just month to month?

So find a legal aid or tenants place for advise. Get copies of your paid rent together and what ever you've paid for this problem. Also come up with an amount that you could absolutely pay extra for that problem. The judge might let you stay with a signed agreement that you're fine as long as you make those payments.

RedTop · ‎09-01-2010

@feline groovy

In WV, the first place someone goes to in this situation is the WV Department of Health and Human Resources or Welfare Department. You need to show up in person with proof of income, proof of disability, monthly expenses, etc.

I cannot imagine the state of PA not having some type of state assistance to help you. A friend of mine from the hospital retired at 65 with 40 years of service, and receives monthly assistance thru the WVDHHR.

I send my prayers and best wishes for a solution to your issues!

qbetzforreal · ‎08-28-2010

@feline groovy -Well wishes, peace, good health and prosperity to you.

qvcaddition · ‎03-10-2010

@feline groovy

@feline groovy wrote:
OK, so I rarely reveal anything personal on these boards - or in general.

But since now is a crucial time for me, here goes...

I'm a senior (62) with serious health conditions whose only income is Social Security Disability - a lot less than regular Social Security.

My life has been unusual and most wouldn't understand it, including the current situation and circumstances.

Plus I haven't had any family for the last 30 years nor any friends for the last 20.

Yeah, I know, w e i r d.

I've been working non-stop day and night for the last several weeks trying to help myself through a financial/housing crisis but, so far, to no avail.

It's been extremely stressful and there's a deadline coming up next week.

I normally wouldn't ask for good juju for myself but since I can't crowdfund and I don't have a support system, I thought I could ask a community that I'm actually a part of.

Thank you in advance and bless you for whatever prayers you can send.

You will be in my prayers everyday. I am a senior without much support, but good neighbors and here. I really feel your sorrow. I know how much prayer has helped me, so I will ask that you get help and some companionship. A support. Sometime the only support comes from the heavens, so prayers help alot, I know. God Bless you.

LuvmyLab · ‎06-07-2010

Prayers coming your way!

nrm · ‎06-02-2010

@feline groovy Many prayers,love and hugs coming your way. A lot of posters are pointing you in the right direction. I only hope that the state of Pennsylvania will help you. It wouldn't be a bad idea to write to Governor Shapiro. It could bring some much needed good into you life.
Wishing you a safe journey through all of this. ❤️