I think everyone is different. I try not to judge people. I don't always suceed. I'm a work in progress.
As I've gotten older I'm more of the live and let live person. My oldest daughter has 5 children; 4 surviving children. Three of the children are teenagers.
They were all born 'by design'. I mean they were totally planned, just like mine were and probably many of your's were.
Who are any of us to judge someone else? The only time it would bother me is if the children weren't taken care of. The only way you'd really know that is to try to visit the house and see ALL of the situation.
I think too often though children are suffering because people don't want to get involved. There are ways of making sure a child is being cared for.
I've always been one to step up if I see something. However, like I said, before I'd interceed when it comes to children, I'd do my best to get the correct information and not just base my opinion on here say or what I see on the surface.
Children are very honest and most haven't been taught to lie.....yet. If you talk to them, they'll usually tell you something honestly.
I think though, sometimes people don't realize how difficult raising children can be and is.
It's a 'job' that never really ends. I say that because, even as adults they are still on your mind and in your hearts.
There's nothing like it though when your daughter repeats something that you used to say to her. Here's a hint to all those young mothers...."Never (I repeat never) say, "That's exactly what I used to say to you". Ha! Just when they're out of sight jump up and down and say, "Yea"! Ha!