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[Kachina624]

On 4/6/2014 CrazyDaisy said:

There is only one reason a person would breed for mixed dogs ---- MONEY.

Exactly! A reputable breeder breeds for one reason only...with the goal, through careful selection, of improving the breed. They seldom if ever, make a profit on the puppies they sell as their expenses in producing a litter can be astronomical.

Depending on your definition of "quality", mixed breed pups can be bred to be healthy, but quality usually refers to meeting a breed standard and they obviously don't do that. They are more likely to be the product of backyard breeders who own a female and allow it to reproduce. A professional or hobby breeder actually knows about pedigrees and genetics and breeds to produce puppies who not only meet breed standards but exceed the quality of the parents.

[Kachina624]

Nantucket, I hope you soon find your next pal. I live alone and know how much a dog can enrich your life. The downside is having to lose one. I still miss every dog I ever owned as they are all unique with their own personalities. It really doesn't matter what breed the pup will be...they all have the capacity to love and be loved, to go places with us and be our constant companions. Good luck in your search!

[sidsmom]

I would never crate & ship an animal on an airplane. They DO lose luggage...why not the crate? Sad. I know that pup somehow spoke to you, but please ck the local shelters...they need your help! Good luck.

[lvenjay]

I am so sorry for your pain and loneliness, Nantucket. When I lose a four footed friend, I always feel the urge to get another one to hold and love right away. But sometimes it is better to wait a bit, continue to grieve and remember the good times. I believe the right one will find his/her way to you.

Please take care.

[CrazyDaisy]

On 4/6/2014 nantucket shore said:

Let me address Lacey1 and CrazyDaisy.....

1) It's been a week since I had to put my dog down.

2) I'm so heartbroken it hurts so much it's incredible

3) My dog went everywhere with me and he was my friend and partner.

4) I asked one question about flying a pup on a plane and I get your nonsense....seriously, I read and you both are claiming your right, well, no one is right and your t*t for tat is only bringing more tears. It really doesn't matter, it doesn't. Life is too short and to go back and forth just to be right, there is no right or wrong.

5) If the 2 of you want to argue, start your own post, what you said has nothing to do with my original post.

Thank you and I hope the 2 of you respect the sadness I am encountering, I had to take his cage down today, I had to toss his dog bed, wash the stainless bowls and maybe one day, I'll find another who brought me so much joy and laughter. He was the best partner, he listened and never talked back.

With all due respect you started a discussion about purchasing a puppy not about the loss of a pet. I am sorry that you do not like the direction the discussion went concerning the purchase of puppies/dogs. However I am not sure what you expected when you ask about purchasing and shipping and then get upset when you are informed of other options.

Sorry about your loss.

[RainyDayGal]

I don't think any dog should fly on a plane unless they are with the person and can go in the passenger area. I would never put a dog in the cargo part of the plane. Ever. Some have serious issues after that. And an 8 week old puppy? What kind of breeder would even do that?!

I think it's fine to consider a dog at this point, but not one that has to be put on a plane. Look for one that is local or one that can be transported via car/van.

I recently adopted a dog from Texas and they transported her here in a special van.

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[JLLH358]

Nantucket, have you thought about fostering? You would have a furbaby to care for, but not your own and you would be saving a life. Of course if you become a "failed foster", lol, you'd have your wish for a new furbaby permanently! Just a thought.

[Mistreatedbycs]

Today is the 1st day I managed to get through without a tear or should I say a bucket load of tears. I am passing on flying a pup in. Thanks to all for all your wisdom and understanding.

Reading through the breeders comments on web pages, crating and shipping puppies sounds like it's common practice. I guess I won't go the "blind date" route but wait until we meet and then I'll find out if it's love at first site. Oh my, now I'm getting myself mixed up with a man or a dog....too funny.

Regarding the question of fostering, I have customers who do that and it pains them to send them off for adoption and I would have the same problem.

[Lacey1]

On 4/9/2014 nantucket shore said:

Today is the 1st day I managed to get through without a tear or should I say a bucket load of tears. I am passing on flying a pup in. Thanks to all for all your wisdom and understanding.

Reading through the breeders comments on web pages, crating and shipping puppies sounds like it's common practice. I guess I won't go the "blind date" route but wait until we meet and then I'll find out if it's love at first site. Oh my, now I'm getting myself mixed up with a man or a dog....too funny.

Regarding the question of fostering, I have customers who do that and it pains them to send them off for adoption and I would have the same problem.

I'm glad to hear that you had a better day. It is so painful to have to go on without a beloved companion. I wish you much luck finding a new friend. I may be enjoying my last years with my dogs. Lucy is 12 years old and Sunny is 7, (big dogs age faster). I am not in the best of health, and it would be cruel to get a puppy, if I couldn't keep it all of his/her life. Keep us posted, please. Your journey could help others in the same situation.

[Mominohio]

On 4/4/2014 JLLH358 said:

Please adopt locally. I may get bashed for this, but so be it. I feel very strongly about what constitutes a "quality breeder". A good, reputable breeder will NOT ship their animals across country that young --- and will NOT send them to perfect strangers period. Those willing to do so are in it for the money, and you will get what you get in terms of a healthy/unhealthy animal. GOOD breeders, on the other hand, cost a small fortune because of what goes into the care of the animal for life, and the attention to genetics behind the animal. They feel strongly that the animals are theirs for their lives and if for any reason the person adopting cannot keep them, they are to be returned and will have the adopter sign a contract to that effect. They care for their animals. They also usually insist on a minimum of one visit in person and VERY often if not always insist on a personal home visit by them. Having said that, we have always adopted ours from various situations -- never bought. (I feel strongly about that, too.)

I agree with this post totally, and would add a caution about getting another pet so soon. We all are different, and there is room in our hearts for many furry friends in a lifetime, but I never seek out an animal, they usually find me. And after the loss of one, we may not be in the right frame of mind to make important decisions about adding a new pet to our lives. Please give yourself plenty of time regardless of your choice to buy or rescue.