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[SouthernBee]

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@Yahooey wrote:

@SouthernBee 

there are many delivery services -and not just from the food place

by me - there is grubhub - uber eats etc

would that be an option? specifiy exactly what u want??

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@Yahooey :Haven't tried anything like that. DH and SIL eat at a buffet place. If you do the orders to go: you have to go inside to prepare your stuff

[SouthernBee]

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@Bri369 wrote:

@SouthernBee 

I am so sorry she causes you so much stress.  

Is there a way you can just place your order directly with the restaurant and she can just pick it up or get it delivered?  You might have a better chance of getting exactly what you want and how you want it.

(((Southern Bee)))

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@Bri369 : DH and sister eat at a buffet place. If you prefer a to go plate- you must go inside and prepare it. Then take everything to the cashier to be weighed and pay.

[cowboy sam]

@SouthernBee 

my 2cents...

don't answer her e-mails!..

if you do tell her you are to busy and can't talk to her, you are being way too nice to her!

She wants to be in charge and only do what she wants to do😡  and enjoys seeing you react by doing the opposite!🤔🤬  Shame on her!

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"If" i were you..i wouldn't" reward "her bad antics by making her tea ,etc or anything else for her to take home.

lubs ya!

[cowboy sam]

dear preds  and friends

@SouthernBee @Bri369 @Yahooey @geezerette @Mj12 @Drythe @PamfromCT @MyShadowLove @SoX @qualitygal @loveschocolate @dooBdoo 

i was awake at 4am and decided to get out of bed  .

I took my water to basement,did 2 loads of laundry after resting a bit after being out with DD.

Later i went with neighbor just before dark last night...think i over did it yesterday.

lubs ya!

[SouthernBee]

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@cowboy sam wrote:

@SouthernBee 

my 2cents...

don't answer her e-mails!..

if you do tell her you are to busy and can't talk to her, you are being way too nice to her!

She wants to be in charge and only do what she wants to do😡  and enjoys seeing you react by doing the opposite!🤔🤬  Shame on her!

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"If" i were you..i wouldn't" reward "her bad antics by making her tea ,etc or anything else for her to take home.

lubs ya!

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@cowboy sam : Easier said than done. DH desperately wants to keep relationship with sister and no matter what happens he sides with her and everything is my fault. Late yesterday, DH said he had to answer his sister email because she needed to know what he wanted to eat today so she can plan her schedule to where she will be going. I have no idea what all she told him. We were worn out. After the baseball game - gave DH pain medicine and asleep early. He has slept all night and still asleep and no trips during the night to the bathroom.

During the years she never eats breakfast and insist that they eat early around 11 a.m. I really hate this and he still insist on eating early.

I woke up around 5 a.m. and had email from her: stated brother didn't tell her what time to bring the food and she needs to know something 😳🤷‍♀️. I haven't responded to the email. I will wait until DH wakes up and tell him to email her. I am dreading today and tomorrow. The doctors appointment is at 8:30 so another day to get up early. Dealing with what ever happens at the appointment and then dealing with her. I desperately need to do laundry plus deciding what to cook for this weekend.🤗♥️🙏🥤🥤🥤🥤🥞🥞🧇🧇🧇🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓🥓

[SouthernBee]

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@cowboy sam wrote:

dear preds  and friends

@SouthernBee @Bri369 @Yahooey @geezerette @Mj12 @Drythe @PamfromCT @MyShadowLove @SoX @qualitygal @loveschocolate @dooBdoo 

i was awake at 4am and decided to get out of bed  .

I took my water to basement,did 2 loads of laundry after resting a bit after being out with DD.

Later i went with neighbor just before dark last night...think i over did it yesterday.

lubs ya!

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@cowboy sam : Yes - you over did it. I wish that I had 1/2 of your energy.

I am depressed with everything going on and dealing with the reality that I have gained weight.Sad that I am an stressed and emotional eater and can't conquer this problem and always in a vicious circle.

Please take care of yourself and get some rest.♥️🙏🥤🥤🥤🥓🥓🥓

[Bri369]

@SouthernBee 

I'm so sorry you're caught up in all of this with her.  I would just let your husband plan  his meals with her.  She knows she upsets you and her brother will not call her out on it.  You can't change their relationship.  The only thing you can do is change the way you react to it.  

(((Southern Bee)))

[Bri369]

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@cowboy sam wrote:

dear preds  and friends

@SouthernBee @Bri369 @Yahooey @geezerette @Mj12 @Drythe @PamfromCT @MyShadowLove @SoX @qualitygal @loveschocolate @dooBdoo 

i was awake at 4am and decided to get out of bed  .

I took my water to basement,did 2 loads of laundry after resting a bit after being out with DD.

Later i went with neighbor just before dark last night...think i over did it yesterday.

lubs ya!

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@cowboy sam 

Get some rest.  You did a lot yesterday. 

Lubs ya 

[loveschocolate]

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@Bri369 wrote:

@SouthernBee 

I'm so sorry you're caught up in all of this with her.  I would just let your husband plan  his meals with her.  She knows she upsets you and her brother will not call her out on it.  You can't change their relationship.  The only thing you can do is change the way you react to it.  

(((Southern Bee)))

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@Bri369 @SouthernBee , ^^^THIS!^^^

This past weekend when we had 8 members of DH's family here, I let him plan meals, etc. This week I have been doing laundry, laundry and more laundry. Sheets, towels, etc. I "think" they are coming to stay AGAIN at the end of August. I'm SICK of them. Ugh 😩. Rant over. 

[Bri369]

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@loveschocolate wrote:

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@Bri369 wrote:

@SouthernBee 

I'm so sorry you're caught up in all of this with her.  I would just let your husband plan  his meals with her.  She knows she upsets you and her brother will not call her out on it.  You can't change their relationship.  The only thing you can do is change the way you react to it.  

(((Southern Bee)))

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@Bri369 @SouthernBee , ^^^THIS!^^^

This past weekend when we had 8 members of DH's family here, I let him plan meals, etc. This week I have been doing laundry, laundry and more laundry. Sheets, towels, etc. I "think" they are coming to stay AGAIN at the end of August. I'm SICK of them. Ugh 😩. Rant over. 

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@loveschocolate 

I'm so sorry.  Family or no family, don't they have any idea how  much work it takes to have guests like that.  Stay at a hotel!