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@Pittfanatic @Q-Checker   what a great attitude. Not everyone feels led to donate financially.  I do know many that can't give cash, give of their time, energy and from their belongings as well.  I think most do what they can. Scholorships are something my husband I believe fiercely in. Nothing like investing in the future...the investment of kids not only benefits us, but the future as well.  We give to a scholorship fund of my husbands involvement. There are a few animal rescues and science centers we always give with confidence .  I also firmly believe rescuing animals benefits not just the animal, but ourselves, the community and our well- being  as well. Money helps, but time nd energy keep things running. Can't have one without the other.  Jmho

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We deal with charities all of the time. I learned a long time ago to be careful with large beneficiaries. Like others have said, a lot of donations go to "operating expenses." And there is no guarantee your donation will go exactly where you wish, if that is important to you. 

 

 

 

 I prefer to deal with smaller groups, and I always talk to a contact person on the phone. I want to make sure donations are going directly to families. So far that has worked with the charities we support, from military to medical, and everything else. 

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@cjm61 wrote:

I think your comment @Sooner "Yes, I understand it is nothing new" is correct. This is not new. I know many people believe in the Red Cross but they are not as upstanding as some believe. 

 

Years ago, around 40-50 years ago, my dad was a firefighter. He was on the fireline in the forest working hard and exhausted. The American Red Cross approached him asking if he needed anything. He asked only for chapstick. They handed it to him and asked him to pay the full retail amount. These were all donated. Hearing this from so long ago gives me a bad taste for charities. 

 


 

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I believe completely what you said when your dad asked for chapstick from the American Red Cross.

 

It reminds me the story my dad told when he came home from WWII.  (I wasn't born yet).

 

The American Red Cross greeted the military for coming home from the war as it was over.  They asked my dad as well as the other guys if they wanted anything.  

 

My dad and others asked for a cup of coffee.  The Red Cross brought them a cup of coffee, but they had to pay .35 first.  No one had any money whatsoever on them.  They did not get a cup of coffee!!

 

Struck my dad the wrong way and would not donate to that particular charity.

 

 

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@bikerbabe wrote:
I do hope this doesn’t turn into an “all charities are crooks” because that is not true at all. I give primarily to several animal sanctuaries, a scholarship at my former nursing school, and a local group that feeds unhoused (homeless) in a local park.

@bikerbabe  I agree.  What prompted me to post this is how many charities that are local that I've never heard of pop up on the news now.  And they were saying they were hurting because their federal funds weren't coming in.  

 

Then I am thinking about a local charity with a $4 million dollar budget and how many people could they even serve annually and started to wonder.  And they get donations and support from all the local churches I know who have large budgets for the same things.

 

So I'm thinking some people are making a ton of money along the way with helping disadvantaged people.  Then I'm seeing people get caught at city, county and state, federal level for skimming money and thinking there needs to be way more effort put toward this problem.  So I posted to see if others are starting to think that a lot of this is starting to not make sense any more.

 

I think a lot more regulation and open reporting is needed on many levels.   

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@Sooner   you must live in a big town!  No local charity I deal with makes that much in 10 years, let alone a year.  Must have high profile donors or get donations nationwide. I do donate to one of the biggest cat ,no kill rescues in LA, and they take in a million maube.   But they get donated,Veterinary help and such, there are charities That have one salaried organizer, or Chairman. The salary is Modest and I don't mind that, because this is a life's work, all this person does 24/7.  All help is volunteers.  Saved over 150,000 cats last year .  You should be able to call or email that charity and ask them for the list of how their money is spent.  I have.  If they are forthright, they should have one ready, or post it. If they won't, then I would be skeptical. 

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@cjm61 wrote:

I think your comment @Sooner "Yes, I understand it is nothing new" is correct. This is not new. I know many people believe in the Red Cross but they are not as upstanding as some believe. 

 

Years ago, around 40-50 years ago, my dad was a firefighter. He was on the fireline in the forest working hard and exhausted. The American Red Cross approached him asking if he needed anything. He asked only for chapstick. They handed it to him and asked him to pay the full retail amount. These were all donated. Hearing this from so long ago gives me a bad taste for charities. 

 


 

@cjm61 

 

I believe completely what you said when your dad asked for chapstick from the American Red Cross.

 

It reminds me the story my dad told when he came home from WWII.  (I wasn't born yet).

 

The American Red Cross greeted the military for coming home from the war as it was over.  They asked my dad as well as the other guys if they wanted anything.  

 

My dad and others asked for a cup of coffee.  The Red Cross brought them a cup of coffee, but they had to pay .35 first.  No one had any money whatsoever on them.  They did not get a cup of coffee!!

 

Struck my dad the wrong way and would not donate to that particular charity.

 

 


@Sunshine Kate @cjm61 I found these documents online.  I too heard from my mom and dad and others over the years about Red Cross or Salvation Army. My Dad was WWII AF and was stationed in England. Maybe that was it. The British Red Cross did sell to their soldiers ! They couldn't afford to give to their soldiers. I don't know about the chapstick though, as this happened after war.  Maybe it was a concession stand thing? . Seems a little cheap not to give a firefighter a chapstick though.   Here is article 

 

The following is compiled from several documents.

Coffee & Doughnuts

Questions continue to surface periodically about the fact that the Red Cross—

whose service to the armed forces have always been free—sold some doughnuts

and coffee during World War II. This was done at the request of the US

government while in Britain. Problems were arising because the British Red Cross

needed to charge its own troops for refreshments in order to survive financially.

The same situation began to occur in 1942 to other British agencies that were

providing refreshments. But the American Red Cross continued to provide the

refreshments for free. United States Secretary of War Henry Stinson applauded

the American Red Cross’ policy, but noted that the American troops were the best

paid among the Allies and thus could afford to pay. Under Stinson’s order the

American Red Cross began to ask for a nominal charge for coffee and doughnuts

from those troops not on the front lines. Front line troops were never asked to

pay for Red Cross refreshments. Please note that the American Red Cross

personnel are sent overseas at the request of the US military.

The Red Cross charged for food, lodging, barber and valet services in stationary

installations but did not charge in mobile facilities. (clubmobiles, etc.)

The Red Cross did NOT sell cigarettes. The sale of cigarettes is a violation of Red

Cross policy and the Bureau of Internal Revenue regulations. There were

instances, however, in which servicemen paid for tax-exempt cigarettes carrying

the name of the Red Cross. Such a situation may have come about through

confusion of Red Cross supplies with army post exchange supplies.

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@frenchie wrote:

My Dad was in the army in WWIi and he told us the Red Cross charged for coffee and donuts. Since then he always was thankful to the Salvation Army that served them free. My Dad also got a purple heart and a bronze medal which I have. 


@frenchie - That's interesting.  My dad said the same thing about the Red Cross and Salvation Army.

 

I have no way to verify it (I wasn't even a twinkle in my dad's eye then), but I see no reason for him to have lied.

 

I've been a supporter of the Salvation Army ever since.

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@Venezia  did you see article I posted in last post?  We may have posted same time. I did copy and paste  a few other posts I was responding too, but look at bottom article in post.  This explains a lot. Those were verified articles I copied. I too had heard rumors from vets as you and many others heard, and from my own Dad.  lol and we knkw Dads don't lie!  Not my dad!  lol.  now I understand, especially about WWII servicemen serving overseas, and the US ..that were not on front lines. 

 

@Sooner   you know you got me thinking, and I wanted to verify something before I posted to you. A charity should post their income tax audit and report. Also, a full report of the previous years statistics. I went to my one Charity, and there it was.  I can see where all the money goes. But even better what results they get. How many cats did they rescue, how many did they vaccinate, how many did they neuter and spay, how much were supplies, rent, food supplies, medical etc. they break it down. They also break down how much is donated in cash and kind. I would investigate the charity that sounds suspicious, cause those apples spoil the whole bunch. Stay proactive like you are

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@shoekitty @Q-Checker 

Your comments are quite ironic given this thread. Just sayin.

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@shoekitty @Q-Checker 

Your comments are quite ironic given this thread. Just sayin.


@ThinkingOutLoud   ironic?  lol, you mean I should have been more charitable in my comments ?  

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