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Re: Moms NOW vs Mom THEN!!๐Ÿ˜‚


@Goodie2shoes wrote:

@SandySparkles  oh yes !! we had to be home before dark as well ! 



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@spiderw wrote:

Good ones and relatable!!!!  I am glad I grew up with the MOM's then, no regrets and I have wonderful happy memories of childhood and my teen yrs.



@spiderw Welcome!๐Ÿฅฐ My dear mother could be a "tyrant" of sorts, but I am forever grateful for the expectations she had of us; no exceptions! She said what she meant, and she meant what she said; PERIOD!๐Ÿ˜

 

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Yeah...I remember that.   BUT, there is one glitch...My mother enforced it with a leather whip BEFORE I had a chance to "break the rule".    

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I have never heard of "use your words" but I'm guessing it's probably different than when I use my words LOL

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@Desertdi wrote:

Yeah...I remember that.   BUT, there is one glitch...My mother enforced it with a leather whip BEFORE I had a chance to "break the rule".    



@Desertdi Welcome!๐Ÿฅฐ  I was saddened to read this because I can relate!๐Ÿ˜” My dear mother once bragged about how she gave us a "whippin" for FUTURE thngs we might think of doing!๐Ÿซค In spite of it all, she raised "good" kids as she LOVEDโค๏ธ to proudly point out, and all who knew her๐Ÿ˜ŠI reminisce now with great affection for some things, and wholeheartedly regret others!

 

I was a precocious child and I think that factored in to some degree.๐Ÿ˜Š

 

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@In-x-s wrote:

I have never heard of "use your words" but I'm guessing it's probably different than when I use my words LOL



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@SandySparkles wrote:

@Desertdi wrote:

Yeah...I remember that.   BUT, there is one glitch...My mother enforced it with a leather whip BEFORE I had a chance to "break the rule".    



@Desertdi Welcome!๐Ÿฅฐ  I was saddened to read this because I can relate!๐Ÿ˜” My dear mother once bragged about how she gave us a "whippin" for FUTURE thngs we might think of doing!๐Ÿซค In spite of it all, she raised "good" kids as she LOVEDโค๏ธ to proudly point out, and all who knew her๐Ÿ˜ŠI reminisce now with great affection for some things, and wholeheartedly regret others!

 

I was a precocious child and I think that factored in to some degree.๐Ÿ˜Š

 

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@SandySparkles 

 

I appreciate your reply.    Honestly, I thought "I was the only one"...and couldn't wait to get out of that house.    

 

Eventually, I accepted a job transfer, and she disinherited me because unmarried ladies MUST stay at home with their mother.    (I hit the road anyway.)    di

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@Desertdi wrote:

@SandySparkles wrote:

@Desertdi wrote:

Yeah...I remember that.   BUT, there is one glitch...My mother enforced it with a leather whip BEFORE I had a chance to "break the rule".    



@Desertdi Welcome!๐Ÿฅฐ  I was saddened to read this because I can relate!๐Ÿ˜” My dear mother once bragged about how she gave us a "whippin" for FUTURE thngs we might think of doing!๐Ÿซค In spite of it all, she raised "good" kids as she LOVEDโค๏ธ to proudly point out, and all who knew her๐Ÿ˜ŠI reminisce now with great affection for some things, and wholeheartedly regret others!

 

I was a precocious child and I think that factored in to some degree.๐Ÿ˜Š

 

THANK you SO much for caring to share!๐Ÿค—

 

~~~All we need is LOVE๐Ÿ’–


@SandySparkles 

 

I appreciate your reply.    Honestly, I thought "I was the only one"...and couldn't wait to get out of that house.    

 

Eventually, I accepted a job transfer, and she disinherited me because unmarried ladies MUST stay at home with their mother.    (I hit the road anyway.)    di



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Another funny one @SandySparkles

I never had to worry about the language because I never heard my parents swear or use slang. We knew what was expected of us!

 

My mom was something. If I was crying or upset I was comforted.

 

 

But my dad - we heard a lot of things about "the starving children in Africa." I had no idea what that really meant, but when I grew up I found out. 

 

My dad spanked me once. I don't remember what for. It didn't hurt, but my tears were because of the indignity of it. 

 

I, too, could pretty much go where I wanted, as long as I was home before dark!  

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@SandySparkles @love this. We didn't swear we knew better lol. If I didn't like dinner I made something for myself lol, no fast food drive thru, we didn't cry much we knew better lol. We played outside until we were called in and a bag lunch or paid hot Lunch at school. After school a quarter bought me a coke and a bag of chips lol๐Ÿ˜‚