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Valued Contributor
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Registered: ‎08-23-2011

Re: Is your husband affectionate?

This is a weird post and too personal

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Re: Is your husband affectionate?

If you tell someone to stop and they won't...that is crossing a line and is abuse.....   even more so if you have expressed that it hurts or bothers you. There is no excuse for that.  Next time this happens.... look him square in the eye and, in no uncertain terms... say Stop it.  If he doesn't...you have a big problem.

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Registered: ‎08-19-2010

Re: Is your husband affectionate?

I'd haul off and knock him one.  

Scare him to death with "call 911 I think something is broken I need help".

if he heads to the phone say "maybe I'll be alright if I sit quiet for a minute' he won't want the authorities to know it was his fault or have to pay the co pay on the medical bills. LOL

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Registered: ‎03-09-2010

Re: Is your husband affectionate?

oh my lort.

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Re: Is your husband affectionate?

Take your half of "the million".........and get out of there...............

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Re: Is your husband affectionate?

Men just never want to quit and now medicine has made it possible.My husband thinks that s@x cures everything....maybe we need to keep them busier around the house so they are tired at the end of the day.My friends husband received a call the other day from a guy in his early nineties to give him a ride to the doctor so that he could get some Viagra.He asked the guy what his wife thought about that and he said that she called him an old fool and said he would need to find someone else to try it out on...haha

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Registered: ‎03-10-2010

Re: Is your husband affectionate?

What a strange thread... maybe it needs to go buh-bye.  I mean huh? 

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Re: Is your husband affectionate?

Given your physical conditions and having voiced your pain at his actions, I go with the poster who described reverse abuse.    It is a sneaky type of behavior cloaked in    "Playfulness" but it is still aggression and hostility in my book.

 

I had a very intelligent uncle who was always quick with the "ha ha" funny type of sarcasm leveled especially at me his whole life.  I finally told him that his sarcasm whether at me or others was a " socially acceptable form of hostility " and I recognized it for what it was.  No longer would I play his game to his frustration.  My aunt was very proud of my ability and strength of character to deal with him.  Miss her so much....

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Registered: ‎08-19-2010

Re: Is your husband affectionate?

I wouldn't let my husband take those kinds of drugs . Most men have a high enough chance of getting cancer in the first place and these things are hormones. Might not be a problem much longer in any case.

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Registered: ‎06-20-2010

Re: Is your husband affectionate?

Strange...