Community Chat

[dex]

@Desert Lily You have been through a lot of loss and I will pray for you to find healing.Thankyou for your message and for reminding us to not put our happiness or loved ones on hold.Yes love is the most important gift we give and receive.

[NC Bandwagon]

I am deeply sorry for your loss, Desert Lily.

[libbyannE]

I am so sorry. You have every reason to feel as you do, and it's good to let the tears flow.  Talk to him. He may hear you. After you move through some of your grief and shock, don't hesitate to get counseling if you feel you need to talk to someone. This is a big loss -- of someone you loved and someone who loved you. It's also the loss of a future you were beginning to believe in. You are in an understandable emotional free fall, and you may find, as I did after a huge loss years ago, that some regular counseling sessions can help you find solid "ground" under your feet again. I will be thinking of you. I'm glad you are already reaching out, through this board, to share with others.

[Mary Bailey]

@Desert Lily  I am so very sorry for your loss. 

I know I want to speak to my 1st love before it's too late. 

[BoGo7]

[pattypeep]

Oh, my gosh, your post had me in tears. I'm so very, very sorry that this happened to you. It's heartbreaking. God be with you !

[Desert Lily]

Thank you for your kind support. I appreciate it.

[violann]

There has been nothing sadder or more devestating to my life than unexpected loss.

I hope you will be able to restore some light to your life soon. There are some very good reading materials available for those suddenly "widowed" that you may find helpful. 

Be gentle to yourself. There are no rules for getting over something you've experienced. You will have to take one day and one step at a time.