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We are gifted if we can be at peace with the ending stages of life.  My dear MIL taught me a lot about being content.

 

I am now a widow, have only one sibling and one child left.  Lost another BIL this summer.  Without exception all those older are gone.  That is just how a trail ends.  Path of life.  

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I have an update and went to the store yesterday and got a few things.  I bought veggies and fruit and dip and already prepared.   I am so glad to not have to do all that prep work.  I know easy to do but easier to buy that way.  

Love it.  I thought girl you have done enough.

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I have lost so many over the last few years, that each Christmas since has taken on new and poignant significance.

I work hard to stay involved with my extended family, especially the younger members. My home is a gathering place for all of us and I wouldn't have it any other way. I've toned down the menu over the years and no longer do the traditional and elaborate sit downs. Buffets are the order of business and I even (gasp) serve prepared foods straight from the grocery. Everyone pitches in for clean up so its not exhausting.

I will carry on the Christmas traditions for as long as I can stand on my own 2 feet and my crew still wants to drive out to the country to celebrate.

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@Lakelife62 wrote:

I have lost so many over the last few years, that each Christmas since has taken on new and poignant significance.

I work hard to stay involved with my extended family, especially the younger members. My home is a gathering place for all of us and I wouldn't have it any other way. I've toned down the menu over the years and no longer do the traditional and elaborate sit downs. Buffets are the order of business and I even (gasp) serve prepared foods straight from the grocery. Everyone pitches in for clean up so its not exhausting.

I will carry on the Christmas traditions for as long as I can stand on my own 2 feet and my crew still wants to drive out to the country to celebrate.


Merry Christmas 🎄 @Lakelife62. You sound a lot like myself as everyone is coming here both today and tomorrow. I like your idea of a buffet. And yes, we are doing  the catered route this afternoon and tomorrow. Enjoy your holidays!🎄

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@Trinity11 wrote:

@Lakelife62 wrote:

I have lost so many over the last few years, that each Christmas since has taken on new and poignant significance.

I work hard to stay involved with my extended family, especially the younger members. My home is a gathering place for all of us and I wouldn't have it any other way. I've toned down the menu over the years and no longer do the traditional and elaborate sit downs. Buffets are the order of business and I even (gasp) serve prepared foods straight from the grocery. Everyone pitches in for clean up so its not exhausting.

I will carry on the Christmas traditions for as long as I can stand on my own 2 feet and my crew still wants to drive out to the country to celebrate.


Merry Christmas 🎄 @Lakelife62. You sound a lot like myself as everyone is coming here both today and tomorrow. I like your idea of a buffet. And yes, we are doing  the catered route this afternoon and tomorrow. Enjoy your holidays!🎄


Merry Christmas to you too, lovely lady! My most favorite time of year! The numbers in the family are dwindling and the kids are growing up with families and extended families of their own but we can always gather them back at the holidays! Even if it has to be in shifts! Glad you are going the catered route and you get 2 days to love on your tribe 😍😘

Treasure the moments @Trinity11