Community Chat

[Lindsays Grandma]

On 10/12/2014 focksie said:

On 10/12/2014 birddrops said:

I agree with the op regarding Cater and would also like to say Lindsays Grandma, that your kindness does not go unnoticed.

There are truly so many uncaring people here that just like to see their words in print. I don't care how long this has been going on or what you think about the situation, if you don't have anything nice to say, why not just ignore?

I have to say sometimes I am very surprised by what some posters have to say.

I also noticed Lindsay's Grandma's post and loved how she spoke about wearing our signs which is very insightful and generally wonderful advice.

I promised myself I would no longer participate. I do not know the truth but would hate to think the community here is being made the butt of a cruel joke.

I learned about wearing signs on our back many years ago from a friend who was a thrapist as well other professionals in the field. Recently the daughter of a friend asked me why a relationship she had didn't work out when the man was so attentive and loving in the beginning. This female was divorced, lonely and vulnerable and she wore that sign on her back which attracted him to her...he wasn't genuine.

I'm sure many people would laugh this off but I believe in it and because I do I have seen it work.

[LizAnne_1]

No one's life is continuously as sad sack as is the poster who portrays RRR. No one's.

The duping of good, well-intentioned people is disgraceful.

[NC Bandwagon]

I'm not sure what's going on, but whoever is hurting, I hope it gets better for them.

[cater]

Lindsays Grandma, I agree about the signs on a persons back but I also can tell a lot about someone just by looking at their eyes. I always say your eyes don't lie, they tell a lot about a person.

[reese2]

On 10/12/2014 cody said:

Common sense does not negate the ability to have kindness and sensitivity in a person. And pathological lying is not a symptom of depression from all of the research that I have found.

There is a lot of judgmental thinking on this board, on both sides of this debate. JMO.

I couldn't agree more.

[Jannabelle]

On 10/13/2014 NC Bandwagon said:

I'm not sure what's going on, but whoever is hurting, I hope it gets better for them.

Me neither, ..it must have been a interesting weekend.

[Lindsays Grandma]

On 10/13/2014 LizAnne said:

No one's life is continuously as sad sack as is the poster who portrays RRR. No one's.

The duping of good, well-intentioned people is disgraceful.

How can you make such a statement? You don't personally know the poster to assume she is duping people. Many people are living horrible lives and can't find a way out. I hope that never happens to you or anyone you love or know. Please try to find some kindness in your heart.

[Lindsays Grandma]

On 10/13/2014 cater said:

Lindsays Grandma, I agree about the signs on a persons back but I also can tell a lot about someone just by looking at their eyes. I always say your eyes don't lie, they tell a lot about a person.

cater, you have a point there, that is why they say the eyes are the window to the soul.

[cater]

Lindsays Gramdma, I started to put a thought on here and the phone rang. I have learned on this board that posters go back and forth with each other and all seems fine in their lives. Then you go to another topic and these same people are posting with some one else and if the subject is something that they are living with they respond to each other then you find out some are missing a leg or arm, or loosing their sight, or they have just buried a family member some their husbands, and whom you thought have no problems in their lives are actually hurting and at their wits end trying to cope. So sometimes it is better to try and be a friend or a sounding board rather then be the one who pushes the person over the edge.

[ShowMe]

Has anyone seen her around here today?????