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[stilltamn8r]

On 7/22/2014 raven-blackbird said:

a 30 gal. water heater is more then sufficient for a single person household. Average hot water use per person is 12 gal./day................................raven

But she, for some reason turns hers down to 100 degrees....

[Krimpette]

Is the extent of their relationship just watching TV together, does anyone know? I haven't followed this tale close enough to know if that's been asked before. It just seems awfully quick for even thoughts of marriage. But maybe it was love at first sight.

[missy1]

On 7/22/2014 Krimpette said:

Is the extent of their relationship just watching TV together, does anyone know? I haven't followed this tale close enough to know if that's been asked before. It just seems awfully quick for even thoughts of marriage. But maybe it was love at first sight.

It was love at first sight on HER end. I thought she siad they went out to dinner. I would like to know where and did he pay for it?

[Lindsays Grandma]

On 7/21/2014 RibbonsRosesRainbows said:

On 7/21/2014 Zerbina said:

On 7/21/2014 JustMeMelissa said:

Zerbina, you seem really sweet...

That's all...

Thank you! My sister suffers (and I do mean SUFFERS for it is an ongoing pain that does not go away) a brain injury from a car wreck where a steel rod went through her right eye and into her brain. Even though she survived she lost her right eye. I see on a daily basis how she struggles with life and it just pisses me off to see anyone with a similar injury being mistreated!

I am so so sorry for what you sister had to go through and still does. It is a hard road and people that have never had one don't get it.........have you visited www.tbiguide.com? I love this site and it answers so many questions............I will keep your sister in my thoughts and what is great about me and her is that I understand what she feels and is going through..........how kind of you to love her........

Blessings to your sister and RRR. I can only imagine how brain damage has taken away so much of their lives. I would never be disrespectful toward anyone who suffers any kind of disability. I know how quickly lives can change due to accidents. My friends were on their way to Las Vegas from California when the husband fell asleep and the car rolled over into a ditch. He was paralyzed from the neck down and she was hurt badly and thankfully recovered within a short time. Their lives changed drastically forever.

[CouponQueen]

I won't even go off onto the subject of TBI but lets say I know first hand daily how the ramifications of a TBI are and life changing without a moment's notice. Here today - gone tomorrow and you are only left with the "why me..." That I can identify with personally..as for some "incurable disease with only a couple people with it and chronic pain.." I just find it odd that she discusses such deep personal things in her life on here and not share that. SHe is always asking if this or that person has had this or that ..so surely with the amount of people here there would be some good leads..I find that whole tale strange to say the least...and question that more then anything.

That said..I hope RRR enjoys herself for what this probably is..a fling! Nothing to be ashamed of..all part of a life and a fun relationship. When you jump the gun, put labels on things and seek more immediately can lead to problems. Let it go..enjoy - take one day at a time.

I would think...friends with some type of benefits or not that he would treat her like any other lady and take her to the movies, out to dinner, for walks..Even out to grab some groceries.. Not just vegging on the couch watching TV..

[muttmom]

On 7/22/2014 missyw1 said:

It was love at first sight on HER end. I thought she siad they went out to dinner. I would like to know where and did he pay for it?

Why do you care so much about the OP and her life? You pick at her incessantly.

[missy1]

On 7/23/2014 muttmom said:

On 7/22/2014 missyw1 said:

It was love at first sight on HER end. I thought she siad they went out to dinner. I would like to know where and did he pay for it?

Why do you care so much about the OP and her life? You pick at her incessantly.

Why do you CARE what I post? OP gives every detail of her life. Others ask her questions, but you single me out.

[Isobelle]

Like clockwork.

[SusyQ22a]

On 7/23/2014 CouponQueen said:

I won't even go off onto the subject of TBI but lets say I know first hand daily how the ramifications of a TBI are and life changing without a moment's notice. Here today - gone tomorrow and you are only left with the "why me..." That I can identify with personally..as for some "incurable disease with only a couple people with it and chronic pain.." I just find it odd that she discusses such deep personal things in her life on here and not share that. SHe is always asking if this or that person has had this or that ..so surely with the amount of people here there would be some good leads..I find that whole tale strange to say the least...and question that more then anything.

That said..I hope RRR enjoys herself for what this probably is..a fling! Nothing to be ashamed of..all part of a life and a fun relationship. When you jump the gun, put labels on things and seek more immediately can lead to problems. Let it go..enjoy - take one day at a time.

I would think...friends with some type of benefits or not that he would treat her like any other lady and take her to the movies, out to dinner, for walks..Even out to grab some groceries.. Not just vegging on the couch watching TV..

I honestly doubt that she has an incurable disease.

[raven-blackbird]

On 7/22/2014 stilltamn8r said:

On 7/22/2014 raven-blackbird said:

a 30 gal. water heater is more then sufficient for a single person household. Average hot water use per person is 12 gal./day................................raven

But she, for some reason turns hers down to 100 degrees....

120-140 degrees is what you want to set it at................................raven