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[RibbonsRosesRainbows]

On 8/24/2014 ROMARY said:

Some people do say 'whatever' just to buy time, money, etc. I've seen and heard it many times. They often will say whatever they can get away (with). Just from my observations in my life.

This is my son he has always "bought time".......and then things went in his favor but this time is going to be different I feel.

[minkbunny]

Wishing you and your family well, RRR.

[RibbonsRosesRainbows]

On 8/24/2014 nunya said:

On 8/24/2014 Danky said:

On 8/24/2014 RibbonsRosesRainbows said:

On 8/24/2014 clhs68 said:

I agree she should not allow her son to move back in and neither should any other family member. He has never been taught to work for what he wants or needs. Someone would always bail him out give him money or let him move in. All he has ever seen is his Mother sitting around on the computer or watching TV so that is what he thinks he can do that also. He is losing his wife and daughter and does not seem to care. If he did he would be working and doing all in his power to keep them here. Not just giving his baby to his wife and will probably never see her again. What a loser.

Loser is tough to call my son but I agree he is lazy and controlling and wanting his own way and not having to work for it but I call him someone that gives up.........no one is a loser they make bad decisions and are lazy.

Who raised him ? What kind of foundation /stability/structure was he given ? He probably is what hs was taught and allowed to be.

I agree to a point. I have known people who came from less than ideal situations who have been successful, others have not. It's their wanting better and hard work that made that happen. Obviously, if he isn't willing to do anything it takes to keep his wife and child here, he doesn't care that much.

I totally agree with you about people that have come from less than ideal situations and became successful or at least able to take care of themselves and I was one of them................I worked hard to keep my head above water without any help from anyone but my efforts and hard work and of course the Savior I know blessed me many many times.............

[RibbonsRosesRainbows]

You know if he is not going to try and keep his family together and work full time and get a good job then he won't do anything when they leave.......really this is the true test.......he has lived on the coat-tails of everyone...........I would help my family after I moved out and eat mayo sandwiches and bologna sandwiches so my family could have food....I am talking about my mother and brothers and my step dad........so he is just lazy and thinks he is owed something so something is going to have to get him in order somehow. I have told him so many times that there are consenquences to our decisions............

[RibbonsRosesRainbows]

On 8/24/2014 minkbunny said:

Wishing you and your family well, RRR.

Thank you minkbunny...........I wish things were different......but we can really at this point only take care of ourselves..........

[irishmama5]

RRR, what part of the National Guard test did he fail? Physical or Aptitude? What is his major in college.

[Chalcedony]

Owning a pet is a big, and potentially expensive, responsibility. While they give us unconditional love and companionship, they rely upon us for all aspects of their care and well-being.

[muttmom]

I do not think our military is where a 25 year old should learn responsibility.

Anyone who would rather have his wife and child move to her native country because he's too lazy to support them, isn't someone we need defending our country.

[RibbonsRosesRainbows]

There are a lot of people defending that should not be in.

[ROMARY]

In general: I don't know for sure, but seems to me that there could be many military office (and other) jobs right here in the US. If a person isn't qualified for overseas work, then perhaps there are other positions here in the US. p.s. Are civilians able to work in military bases?