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[irishmama5]

1. Why can't you get a cat now, why do you have to wait for the relationship to end? 2.You posted your son is joing the Army, is that still his plan?

[Catsy Cline]

On 8/24/2014 KittyLouWhoToo said:

On 8/24/2014 Catsy Cline said:

mooching off women is not considered being a loser?

I love your nic.

thanx!! my tortishell fluffy kitty !

[lulu2]

On 8/24/2014 irishmama5 said: 1. Why can't you get a cat now, why do you have to wait for the relationship to end? 2.You posted your son is joing the Army, is that still his plan?

OP has posted she is not allowed to have a cat or a dog in her apartment. She would sneak it in.

[QueenDanceALot]

On 8/24/2014 Catsy Cline said:

On 8/24/2014 KittyLouWhoToo said:

On 8/24/2014 Catsy Cline said:

mooching off women is not considered being a loser?

I love your nic.

thanx!! my tortishell fluffy kitty !

My favoritest kitty I ever had (and I love them all!) was a fluffy torti!

He was a great cat. Just told a friend some stories about him the other day.

[Catsy Cline]

On 8/24/2014 KittyLouWhoToo said:

On 8/24/2014 Catsy Cline said:

On 8/24/2014 KittyLouWhoToo said:

On 8/24/2014 Catsy Cline said:

mooching off women is not considered being a loser?

I love your nic.

thanx!! my tortishell fluffy kitty !

My favoritest kitty I ever had (and I love them all!) was a fluffy torti!

He was a great cat. Just told a friend some stories about him the other day.

they are the sweetest kitties :-) she was found wandering and rescued, was about 8 mo old when she adopted me!!! a long hair kitty needs more attention but she loves being primped and pampered.
I'm sure your little guy was a sweety too!!!

[irishmama5]

Not a good idea to sneak a cat in if your lease says NO PETS. My sister did that after having the cat for 5 years the landlord found out she either had to move or get rid of the cat within 24 hrs. Moving was not an option. My sister was devastated. Don't put yourself in that situation.

[Danky]

On 8/24/2014 RibbonsRosesRainbows said:

On 8/24/2014 clhs68 said:

I agree she should not allow her son to move back in and neither should any other family member. He has never been taught to work for what he wants or needs. Someone would always bail him out give him money or let him move in. All he has ever seen is his Mother sitting around on the computer or watching TV so that is what he thinks he can do that also. He is losing his wife and daughter and does not seem to care. If he did he would be working and doing all in his power to keep them here. Not just giving his baby to his wife and will probably never see her again. What a loser.

Loser is tough to call my son but I agree he is lazy and controlling and wanting his own way and not having to work for it but I call him someone that gives up.........no one is a loser they make bad decisions and are lazy.

Who raised him ? What kind of foundation /stability/structure was he given ? He probably is what hs was taught and allowed to be.

[nun ya]

On 8/24/2014 Danky said:

On 8/24/2014 RibbonsRosesRainbows said:

On 8/24/2014 clhs68 said:

I agree she should not allow her son to move back in and neither should any other family member. He has never been taught to work for what he wants or needs. Someone would always bail him out give him money or let him move in. All he has ever seen is his Mother sitting around on the computer or watching TV so that is what he thinks he can do that also. He is losing his wife and daughter and does not seem to care. If he did he would be working and doing all in his power to keep them here. Not just giving his baby to his wife and will probably never see her again. What a loser.

Loser is tough to call my son but I agree he is lazy and controlling and wanting his own way and not having to work for it but I call him someone that gives up.........no one is a loser they make bad decisions and are lazy.

Who raised him ? What kind of foundation /stability/structure was he given ? He probably is what hs was taught and allowed to be.

I agree to a point. I have known people who came from less than ideal situations who have been successful, others have not. It's their wanting better and hard work that made that happen. Obviously, if he isn't willing to do anything it takes to keep his wife and child here, he doesn't care that much.

[ROMARY]

As I often say, things will work out in the long term. Best for RRR to take care of herself, keep herself healthy first. The 'younger ones' will eventually take care of themselves, as we all previously have.

[ROMARY]

In general: It's often about ambition, if physically possible. Sometimes the younger folks need a little 'push' to begin to become ambitious in life.