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[SnowPink]

On 12/22/2014 Brokenhearted said: I say with my husband for a few reasons. Too acted to leave. I'm overweight, i feel very uncomfortable about my body. Dealt with it for so long. Maybe no self esteem, I really don't know--don't want to be alone, I know that.

Yet -- you are alone.

[Marianne1]

"Usually when someone turns on you it is not them, it's you"? I have to think that one through-- that doesn't sound right to me.

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On 12/22/2014 Complicated said:

"Usually when someone turns on you it is not them, it's you"? I have to think that one through-- that doesn't sound right to me.

Not someone -- everyone.

[nun ya]

On 12/22/2014 Brokenhearted said: Actually im on my cell phone. After receiving the text, my husband doing nothing, saying nothing , i left. Im sitting in a parking lot thinking. there ia an issue with ds gf, as I was speaking to her on the phone being respectful but firm trying g to work out issues, her mom gets on the phone screaming, telling me- I am a piece of poop- a blank for calling her dd(foul word for a female) and a wh*re. This lady doesn't know me, never met me - - I've been married for almost forever- my husband is the second person ive ever been with. Ds wasn't going to say anything to the mother in my defense-- that alone made me cry. Everything continued to go south.

Sounds like they don't want you in their business. If that is the case, you can still accept who he is with, doesn't mean you have to be best friends with either of them.

[Brokenhearted]

Nope i never saw this coming. Hate is a strong word. I am a good mother, I love my ds. Can I be overbearing, sure but i did nothing to deserve his hate.

[Marianne1]

Being alone is better than being mistreated.

[RoughDraft]

On 12/22/2014 Georgie the 5th said:

On 12/22/2014 RoughDraft said:

Not going to say it...nope.

Aw go ahead. After all, tomorrow is Festivus, start the Airing of Grievances a day early.

Tomorrow is Festivus? I can't believe how fast time flies.

[AnikaBrodie]

I wonder how much grief his girl friend and/or her mother are giving him. This could add to his angry outbursts. Just saying.

[anon]

OP, my son and gf lived with me for awhile and I never knew if and when they had a disagreement. Even if I did I would not have interjected myself into the middle of it. Not ever.

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On 12/22/2014 Brokenhearted said: Nope i never saw this coming. Hate is a strong word. I am a good mother, I love my ds. Can I be overbearing, sure but i did nothing to deserve his hate.

Obviously he doesn't agree with you. Sounds like either he's really mean and hateful for no reason or you are totally oblivious to how overbearing you really are.