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[happycat]

I would like to know what you all think.

I am new to facebook. I had a fake account, that I used for 3 people who live in other areas of the country.

Then, I decided to get a real fb account, real name. Husband got one also, about a week ago.

Now, I have a friend, on fb and real life. She sends dh a friend request last week, he told me she had, and he had friended her.

Then, today, she tells me, 'I saw where your husband had a facebook account'

If I didn't know she is in an unhappy marriage I wouldn't think anything. And if she hadn't already told me about a guy she has been too friendly with on fb (and off) I wouldn't think anything. hmmm.

My husband blocked her shortly after friending her because he didn't want to see her constant posts. Its not my dh I'm thinking about though.

It is just odd to me, that she said "I saw where your dh is on fb", when she knows d good and well she sent him a friend request.

What do ya'll think of that?

[PurpleBunny]

Methinks FB is already causing you problems and probably isn't for you. 

[Kachina624]

Sounds like a junior high school sort of situation and reaction from you.  I think @PurpleBunny was correct. 

[ALRATIBA]

He doesn't have to unfriend her to stop seeing her posts.   All he has to do is click the little arrow in the upper right hand of her post, and can select "hide all ???'s posts."

[happycat]

@ALRATIBA, that is what he did. He didn't unfriend her.

[I am still oxox]

Sounds like a gossipy teen I would block here also the less she knows the better off you might be 

[Nancy Drew]

No time for that nonsense. She would be unfriend ed in a heartbeat.

[september]

I think you and your husband are overthinking this.  

[missy1]

They say FB ruins many relationships and friendships.

[NicksmomESQ]

  I personally am not a fan of FB.I have a page but basically post nothing.I have absolutely no pictures posted or any personal info of myself at all. I started a page to be able to vote on American Idol.I also use it to enter contests etc.

  A hand full of friends sent me friend requests,so not to be rude I accepted their invitations.I can't believe all the personal ,rude, & vindictive things that some of these people post!! My opinions of them have definitely changed.I recently unfollowed someone because her posts were outright disgusting & offensive!

  My son is on FB but he's very careful about what he posts.He only comments about sports & general things about politics.He has only put up a couple of pictures.His friends basically put their entire lives out their for all to see!

  This is only my opinion,but I don't understand why anybody would want to share their business with the universe!!