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[felinemom]

I have written before about missing my sons and gc's who all live out of state. I feel I have made progress with my feeling sorry for myself, but now I'm finding my sisters etc. are all "busy" also. Tried to visit one today for a cup of coffee and got "why don't we just wait till Easter and catch up". When I voiced my disappointment I go the lecture on how busy life and people are. I see her every couple of months, movie etc. Do any of you ladies find yourself in this position ? By the way we are all retired, they help out out with their GC's and I myself do volunteer at school a few days a week. Do any of you get sad and sometimes have crazy thoughts ? I had a date recently, nice man, but already planning overnite visit. Told him I didn't want that relationship yet, my sister said I shoul've been kinder and explained why. I was kind of abrupt, but jeeez folks. Any thoughts, anyone else out there finding people are too "busy" to talk ?? Please no "victim" remarks I have fought long and hard to get where I am. Felinemom