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About yourself?  About others?

 

Do you think it's necessary that your SO knows EVERYTHING about you? And vice versa?

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Re: Do you keep secrets?

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No, I'm just very discreet.

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I would also describe myself as discreet. And I don't think it's vital that your partner know everything about you or you about them. A little mystery keeps the magic brewing.

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Oh my yes. I have always loved secrets. It's a source of pride that I have never betrayed a confidence. Your secrets are safe with me.

 

Only a fool shares everything with one's husband, mystery is an aphrodisiac. 

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Yes, yes and no.

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I have many secrets that people don't know about me - none of their business unless I feel it's necessary for them to know.

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i have never told my husband everything about me as i'm sure he hasn't either.  there is no need to.

if someone asks me to keep a secret or not to tell anyone what they've told me, it goes no further.

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I will keep other peoples secrets,if they ask me to,but i am straight forward with others, i hate lies, always have ,i am a honest person ,that tells it like it is.

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@goldensrbest wrote:

I will keep other peoples secrets,if they ask me to,but i am straight forward with others, i hate lies, always have ,i am a honest person ,that tells it like it is.


@goldensrbest, no one on the forums could write what you wrote and have me believe it more. You appear to be utterly without guile. Heart

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@MaggieMack wrote:

@goldensrbest wrote:

I will keep other peoples secrets,if they ask me to,but i am straight forward with others, i hate lies, always have ,i am a honest person ,that tells it like it is.


@goldensrbest, no one on the forums could write what you wrote and have me believe it more. You appear to be utterly without guile. Heart


I took that as a compliment, i had to look up what guile was!!!

When you lose some one you L~O~V~E, that Memory of them, becomes a TREASURE.