Do you have a Valentine story to share? - Page 3

RedTop · ‎09-01-2010

My sweet Daddy was far from a romantic man, but he came home from work every Valentines Day with a heart shaped box of candy for my mom, and small boxes of candy for us kids. I love having this memory of my Dad.

puttypiesmom · ‎10-11-2017

@151949wrote:
My first husband died on Valentines day 1979. When my second husband and I were deciding on a wedding date he mentioned Valentines Day and I said "oh no , that's the day Peter died" so he said OK it's settled then - we get married on Valentines Day to take the stink off it. So valentines is a kinda bittersweet day for me.I think sadly of the man who was the love of my life but passed way too soon and I enjoy an anniversary with my hubby of 35 years. Every year I get flowers signed with love from both of us Pete and ______. So how sweet & understanding is that?

That's too much to handle but if you're okay with it that's all that matters. More power to you.

VanSleepy · ‎10-05-2010

I think I may have gotten engaged on Valentine's Day but I'm not sure. I just asked my husband and he didn't remember either. So much for romance 29 years later lol

151949 · ‎03-09-2010

@puttypiesmomwrote:
@151949wrote:
My first husband died on Valentines day 1979. When my second husband and I were deciding on a wedding date he mentioned Valentines Day and I said "oh no , that's the day Peter died" so he said OK it's settled then - we get married on Valentines Day to take the stink off it. So valentines is a kinda bittersweet day for me.I think sadly of the man who was the love of my life but passed way too soon and I enjoy an anniversary with my hubby of 35 years. Every year I get flowers signed with love from both of us Pete and ______. So how sweet & understanding is that?
That's too much to handle but if you're okay with it that's all that matters. More power to you.

I think my husband is mature enough to not be jealous of a man who died 39 years ago.

Leiloni · ‎09-09-2014

Cakers, Good Morning! I wanted to thank you for the kind words. I love it when I receive a personal msg & your's was absolutely beautiful! Have a wonderful day. L<3

puttypiesmom · ‎10-11-2017

@151949wrote:
@puttypiesmomwrote:
@151949wrote:
My first husband died on Valentines day 1979. When my second husband and I were deciding on a wedding date he mentioned Valentines Day and I said "oh no , that's the day Peter died" so he said OK it's settled then - we get married on Valentines Day to take the stink off it. So valentines is a kinda bittersweet day for me.I think sadly of the man who was the love of my life but passed way too soon and I enjoy an anniversary with my hubby of 35 years. Every year I get flowers signed with love from both of us Pete and ______. So how sweet & understanding is that?
That's too much to handle but if you're okay with it that's all that matters. More power to you.
I think my husband is mature enough to not be jealous of a man who died 39 years ago.

@151949that's not what I meant at all. I would not appreciate a new husband telling me that it was okay to get married on the date of the death of my 1st husband nor would I appreciate the new husand including the name of the 1st on a holiday card. It should have been left up to you not him when you got married since you suffered quite an emotional loss. That's how I would have reacted 151949.

151949 · ‎03-09-2010

@puttypiesmomwrote:
@151949wrote:
@puttypiesmomwrote:
@151949wrote:
My first husband died on Valentines day 1979. When my second husband and I were deciding on a wedding date he mentioned Valentines Day and I said "oh no , that's the day Peter died" so he said OK it's settled then - we get married on Valentines Day to take the stink off it. So valentines is a kinda bittersweet day for me.I think sadly of the man who was the love of my life but passed way too soon and I enjoy an anniversary with my hubby of 35 years. Every year I get flowers signed with love from both of us Pete and ______. So how sweet & understanding is that?
That's too much to handle but if you're okay with it that's all that matters. More power to you.
I think my husband is mature enough to not be jealous of a man who died 39 years ago.
@151949that's not what I meant at all. I would not appreciate a new husband telling me that it was okay to get married on the date of the death of my 1st husband nor would I appreciate the new husand including the name of the 1st on a holiday card. It should have been left up to you not him when you got married since you suffered quite an emotional loss. That's how I would have reacted 151949.

Well it's a good thing he married me and not you then. I know he respects my memories & understands my feelings, and he is secure in his place in my life over the past 35 years.

puttypiesmom · ‎10-11-2017

@151949wrote:
@puttypiesmomwrote:
@151949wrote:
@puttypiesmomwrote:
@151949wrote:
My first husband died on Valentines day 1979. When my second husband and I were deciding on a wedding date he mentioned Valentines Day and I said "oh no , that's the day Peter died" so he said OK it's settled then - we get married on Valentines Day to take the stink off it. So valentines is a kinda bittersweet day for me.I think sadly of the man who was the love of my life but passed way too soon and I enjoy an anniversary with my hubby of 35 years. Every year I get flowers signed with love from both of us Pete and ______. So how sweet & understanding is that?
That's too much to handle but if you're okay with it that's all that matters. More power to you.
I think my husband is mature enough to not be jealous of a man who died 39 years ago.
@151949that's not what I meant at all. I would not appreciate a new husband telling me that it was okay to get married on the date of the death of my 1st husband nor would I appreciate the new husand including the name of the 1st on a holiday card. It should have been left up to you not him when you got married since you suffered quite an emotional loss. That's how I would have reacted 151949.
Well then it's a good thing he married me and not you then. I know he respects my memories & understands my feelings, and he is secure in his place in my life over the past 35 years.