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On 1/19/2014 Deb1010again said:

very funny!!! I also thought it was because with an adult load, it can be quite big and it "depends" on whether or not the diaper will be able to hold it all. {#emotions_dlg.lol}

I hope that if you ever end up with an "adult load" in YOUR britches that there will be someone there to change it for you.

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My poor Mother has to wear them sometimes. She cries about it. I feel so sorry for her.

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Depends are a terrible brand. After going through different brands to find the right diaper for my mom I finally found one that was comfortable for her, Molicare. It cost a fortune but she felt drier and they fit well.

BTW I'm not offended by the OP.

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On 1/19/2014 sylviahomeatlast said: puleeze---I mean no harm nor disrespect---the ad itself is a laughingstock--I'm sorry that physical conditions make these necessary---and let me tell you---I was hospitalized for 4 months 98% of that time in a coma--I was transferred to another (real bad story) hospital for 2 weeks and when my family brought me home, my daughter put me in the (much needed ) shower, I had a diaper and had no idea how it got there---lighten up

Four months and two weeks isn't very long. And you got better.

I wonder what people did before Depends ... ? Incontinence isn't new.

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When I was younger, I used to call the 1-800 numbers to have a free sample of Attends or whatever sent to my parents, as a joke (neither of them needed them at the time).

A year or so ago, I noticed something like that in the bathroom my mother usually uses, and I know my dad had to use them when he was on a liquid diet and still had the cough from the tumor in his esophagus (before radiation). When you've given birth to 3 kids and then gone through menopause, or you're on a liquid diet and cough frequently, accidents may occur. I hope my parents can view the issue with as light a heart as possible. Stuff just happens to our bodies. I can laugh at a joke about Depends, but I'm not sure I'll do so around my parents...because--even though I know neither of them will start crying--I doubt it would be appreciated. I hope when the time comes that I need Depends, I will be able to laugh about it rather than cry or feel bad about myself.

The commercials are kind of funny...and I think they may be helping to de-stigmatize the issue of incontinence, so that's not a bad thing.



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On 1/19/2014 Marianne is said:

I guess I just don't see this as funny, as I have a family member with MS that needs to use what she can to be as independent as possible--including items like this.

She hates, absolutely hates, that people think she is different, or looks funny or doesn't walk well…..hates it. And that hurts.

Family member with Alzheimer's and they are a life saver. That does hurt! More than you know. It would never depend on who is in the will. So I second this statement. He used another product. Haven't seen an ad for these.

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On 1/19/2014 rondell said:

My poor Mother has to wear them sometimes. She cries about it. I feel so sorry for her.

same here with my mom, rondell. It is so hard getting older...

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On 1/19/2014 adelle38 said:
On 1/19/2014 Marianne is said:

I guess I just don't see this as funny, as I have a family member with MS that needs to use what she can to be as independent as possible--including items like this.

She hates, absolutely hates, that people think she is different, or looks funny or doesn't walk well…..hates it. And that hurts.

I agree. I have a good friend in this position who actually feels guilty about having to wear them. It doesn't help that people joke about it. There are many illnesses that result in the need to wear them.

ITA. I suppose if you are young and far removed from this issue with zero experience in the world and little compassion for people who suffer, you will find this funny or cute. Incontinence is due to many illnesses and does not even afflict just the elderly. It is also not a "new market" for men. I hope those of you who do not have personal experience with this or with a loved one never have to.

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On 1/19/2014 adelle38 said:
On 1/19/2014 Marianne is said:

I guess I just don't see this as funny, as I have a family member with MS that needs to use what she can to be as independent as possible--including items like this.

She hates, absolutely hates, that people think she is different, or looks funny or doesn't walk well…..hates it. And that hurts.

I agree. I have a good friend in this position who actually feels guilty about having to wear them. It doesn't help that people joke about it. There are many illnesses that result in the need to wear them.

ITA. I suppose if you are young and far removed from this issue with zero experience in the world and little compassion for people who suffer, you will find this funny or cute. Incontinence is due to many illnesses and does not even afflict just the elderly. It is also not a "new market" for men. I hope those of you who do not have personal experience with this or with a loved one never have to.

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I found this insulting and insensitive to both care givers and those with conditions making these items a necessity.