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12-08-2016 09:04 PM
Your thoughts.
12-08-2016 09:06 PM
I think it's none of our business.
12-08-2016 09:15 PM
This is a very personal decision to make and only concerns those who would be her Caregivers. I wish you well in whatever you and your family decide.
12-08-2016 09:18 PM - edited 12-08-2016 09:19 PM
Since you asked @Lila Belle, my thought is that that's something your dad shouldn't ask of you. There are circumstances that happen that might make you break that promise, if made. Then you'll feel twice as bad if you can't take care of her. I don't know your circumstances so the decision is definitely yours.
12-08-2016 09:20 PM
Have you spoken to your mother? What are her wishes? I had to make the decision to put my mom into assisted living. She wasn't happy but I did it because I love her and want her to be safe.. My head said said yes, but my heart said no. She's happy but does miss her house. She's made lots of new friends and is finally eating properly. Good luck to you.
12-08-2016 09:20 PM
My thoughts would be different, depending on whether this is just another hypothetical thread-starter, or whether it's an actual situation involving the OP and/or her family.
I've grown leery/weary of threads where people are piling on an OP who later comes back and states "I never said it was me, I just asked a question. You all assumed it was me. I just wanted to know what people think."
12-08-2016 09:26 PM
12-08-2016 09:26 PM
No one can tell you what to do, but you will know. No matter how many promises you make, sometimes the decision is taken out of your hands. My mom died after a long and brave battle with cancer. I was left with my dad who's Alzheimer's was getting worse. No matter what anyone tells you , it is almost impossible to get someone to provide any in home care. His heart condition got worse, and it broke my heart, but I could no longer care for him on my own. Before I could make arrangements for nursing home care, his heart gave out. I was spared . The fact remains we all do our best, and sometimes we can't keep our promise no matter how well meaning we are. Give yourself a break, and remember some things you just can't promise.🌺
12-08-2016 09:31 PM
@Moonchilde wrote:My thoughts would be different, depending on whether this is just another hypothetical thread-starter, or whether it's an actual situation involving the OP and/or her family.
I've grown leery/weary of threads where people are piling on an OP who later comes back and states "I never said it was me, I just asked a question. You all assumed it was me. I just wanted to know what people think."
My goodness you hit the nail on the head
Your good
12-08-2016 09:31 PM
You will do what you have to do. For you. For your life. For your Mom. I'm sorry if this is a decision that you are facing & if a promise that you made to your Dad is weighing on your heart.
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