Re: Club Meeting

judgejudith · ‎06-28-2010

It would be funny if one of the club members posted here. I have not seen any QVC fashion at the meetings .. other than what I wear occasionally, but will be on the watch!

Since I apparently have no filter, I will just as likely speak my mind at the club as I will on this board.

Speaking of hobbies and clubs, what clubs do you belong to? Hobbies are so important as we get older.

hckynut · ‎03-10-2010

On 4/25/2014 judgejudith said:
Gee, I don't know what is the matter with me. I just seem to say out-loud, the things that I am thinking.

Went to my club meeting last night. I believe I've discussed before how these ladies have refused to learn my name, even though they have known me for over 20 years. Last moth I basically told them that they were rude.

So this month, I apparently think it is okay for me to be rude. Last night a fellow plus-sized girl decided to squeeze through the area behind me while I was in the process of gluing which required me (or the lady behind me) to get up (I am also plus size) and move my chair so she could pass. What made me mad was that she was not sitting on my side of the table, she had two ways to exit...one would require no one to move and the other would require me or the lady sitting behind me to move. She made a choice to take the route which would disrupt others. She said to me, "Excuse me, you are going to have to move." To which I replied, "I or YOU could have just walked around the end of both tables...and then no one would have needed to move." I did stand up and moved my chair.

I am just tired of people. Now, I will probably have to apologize to her for pointing out the obvious.

Apologize for what? I seriously doubt she didn't already know there were 2 ways to exit. Why she chose this route? I could speculate a few things but I will just say this. You had a "teaching moment" for this lady and others around you. Look at this as telling it like it is and also as something others might consider before doing this or other similar unnecessarily inconsiderate of others.

I saw "here, here" to you. Sound like exactly the same thing I would have and will do if ever faced with the same situation.

hckynut(john)