Attention mods - Page 2

KingstonsMom · ‎03-09-2010

@CalminHeart wrote:
i'm sorry, I don't understand how it can be hurtful. These are anonymous people, no faces or names. If they agree, disagree, or bash me doesn't bother me. I take what I need from posts and leave the rest. People need to have a thick skin to be on any forum.

@CalminHeart

You obviously didn't see the threads. They were vicious and obscene, with their only purpose being name calling to a couple of our posters!

@I reported them in the very early AM and @AnjalenaQVC, disposed of them quickly!

You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

KingstonsMom · ‎03-09-2010

@SharkE wrote:
missed that one. Wonder if they were banned permanently or just for few days ?

@SharkE

Based on the content, I'm sure they were permanently banned, BUT it was a 'new poster', so they may still be around with their 'usual' nic, if you get my drift.

You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

SharkE · ‎08-19-2010

wonder if that person is back that hit a Christmas or so ago and the mods were off for couple of days and that 'person' tore thru here like a Tx tornado

I even contacted them offline to report that 'demon'.

She pretty well took a squat then hopefully they got her computer IP and put the skids to her joy ride.

KingstonsMom · ‎03-09-2010

@SharkE

Unfortunately, all they have to do is set up a new account using a different computer/tablet/phone, etc., which would have a different IP address than the one that was banned..

You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

SharkE · ‎08-19-2010

By their deeds ye shall know them.

esmerelda · ‎03-10-2010

@CalminHeart wrote:
i'm sorry, I don't understand how it can be hurtful. These are anonymous people, no faces or names. If they agree, disagree, or bash me doesn't bother me. I take what I need from posts and leave the rest. People need to have a thick skin to be on any forum.

@CalminHeart it sounds like you have not been on the receiving end of a really hateful, hurtful comment. I have a thick skin, but I remember one evening reading a comment that made me sit back as if I’d been hit. I don’t remember who wrote it, I don’t remember the words. But I remember the feeling.

It’s very likely the person who wrote it had no idea the effect it would have. I guess we never really know how what we say will be seen/heard by others.

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Keepin' it real.

CalminHeart · ‎03-09-2010

@esmerelda wrote:
@CalminHeart wrote:
i'm sorry, I don't understand how it can be hurtful. These are anonymous people, no faces or names. If they agree, disagree, or bash me doesn't bother me. I take what I need from posts and leave the rest. People need to have a thick skin to be on any forum.
@CalminHeart it sounds like you have not been on the receiving end of a really hateful, hurtful comment. I have a thick skin, but I remember one evening reading a comment that made me sit back as if I’d been hit. I don’t remember who wrote it, I don’t remember the words. But I remember the feeling.

It’s very likely the person who wrote it had no idea the effect it would have. I guess we never really know how what we say will be seen/heard by others.

I have indeed been on the receiving end a number of times. I didn't know them and that's the piece people need to remember. I just don't get how some anonymous person can hurt someone's feelings or offend them. They may not agree with the poster. They may not wrap sweet flowery words around their responses. They may be very rude. Some random anonymous person can't make someone feel bad, hurt, offended unless they let them.

KingstonsMom · ‎03-09-2010

@esmerelda wrote:
@CalminHeart wrote:
i'm sorry, I don't understand how it can be hurtful. These are anonymous people, no faces or names. If they agree, disagree, or bash me doesn't bother me. I take what I need from posts and leave the rest. People need to have a thick skin to be on any forum.
@CalminHeart it sounds like you have not been on the receiving end of a really hateful, hurtful comment. I have a thick skin, but I remember one evening reading a comment that made me sit back as if I’d been hit. I don’t remember who wrote it, I don’t remember the words. But I remember the feeling.

It’s very likely the person who wrote it had no idea the effect it would have. I guess we never really know how what we say will be seen/heard by others.

@esmerelda, @CalminHeart

The point is, that what was posted was nothing but obscene name calling, no subject for discussion at all.

You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

CalminHeart · ‎03-09-2010

@KingstonsMom wrote:
@esmerelda wrote:
@CalminHeart wrote:
i'm sorry, I don't understand how it can be hurtful. These are anonymous people, no faces or names. If they agree, disagree, or bash me doesn't bother me. I take what I need from posts and leave the rest. People need to have a thick skin to be on any forum.
@CalminHeart it sounds like you have not been on the receiving end of a really hateful, hurtful comment. I have a thick skin, but I remember one evening reading a comment that made me sit back as if I’d been hit. I don’t remember who wrote it, I don’t remember the words. But I remember the feeling.

It’s very likely the person who wrote it had no idea the effect it would have. I guess we never really know how what we say will be seen/heard by others.

@esmerelda

The point is, that what was posted was nothing but obscene name calling, no subject for discussion at all.

Obscene? Obscene to me means using some foul language and words that are blocked on these forums.

I agree, name calling is ridiculous. Grown-ups should know better than to get in the gutter and just be mean. I dislike the 'mean girl' more than you may know. It's rude and reduces that person to the lowest common denominator. It reflects on the person posting such garbage and not on the OP or other posters.