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Re: Are you an optimist or pessimist?

More optimistic lately than I've been in a very long time!

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Re: Are you an optimist or pessimist?

@JaneMarplei agree with what you said.I have always believed that we have the power to choose our reactions and most of our feelings.When my son was little I taught him to decide how he wanted to feel about his daily encounters and he has grown to be a strong and caring person who is also happy with himself.

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I consider myself a "Realist" although the optimistic people call me a pessimist.  Look, if something is a stupid idea or I don't think a certain thing will work or happen, I'll say so and I'm right 95% of the time.  

Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit, but Wisdom is knowing not to put it in a fruit salad.
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Re: Are you an optimist or pessimist?

totally an optimist.  even when the landscape appears challenging.  i remember this joke: 

 

There is a famous joke about a child who wakes up on Christmas morning and is surprised to find a heap of horse manure under the tree instead of a collection of presents. Yet, the child is not discouraged because he has an extraordinarily optimistic outlook on life. His parents discover him enthusiastically shoveling the manure as he exclaims, ā€œWith all this manure, there must be a pony somewhere!ā€

 

it inspired me to get busy in volunteer work over the last years as i also believe that the work will never be completed, and you can't rely on others to do it.   it is up to me to make a good contribution.  

 

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Re: Are you an optimist or pessimist?

Jim Croce song... heard it yesterday

 

You don't tug on superman's cape / You don't spit into the wind / You don't pull the mask off that old lone ranger / And you don't mess around with  him.

 

Optimistic... more so than last year...

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Re: Are you an optimist or pessimist?

Probably somewhere between a pessimisst and realist.....I always try to have a "plan B"...

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Re: Are you an optimist or pessimist?

I am a realist.

 

I like dealing with reality, the facts of any given situation, and using logic.

 

I threw away my rose colored glasses a long time ago.

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Re: Are you an optimist or pessimist?

I'm definitely a realist.  I expect the worst and hope for the best. 

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Re: Are you an optimist or pessimist?

Optimist.

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being a pessimist or optimist doesn't rule out being a realist.  it is a question of how you deal with that reality imo.