I was afraid to comment as I don't want to sound rude, but I didn't know women still got perms. My mother used to make me get my hair permed when I was a child, and I hated it. I am in my late 60's and would not get a perm if you payed me. My hair is fine, but I wear it very short and stylish. I love it and get many compliments.
I promise to remind myself every day that I am strong, courageous, and resilient.